सोने में गंदगी कैसे चालू करें।

यदि आप कभी गंदगी सोने में बदलना चाहते हैं, तो आप अकेले नहीं हैं। सालों पहले, कई लोगों ने ऐसा करने की कोशिश में काफी समय बिताया था। उन्हें लंबे नाम से बुलाया गया - "एल्केमिस्ट"। फिर भी उनमें से कोई भी वास्तव में इसे खींच नहीं सकता था। आखिरकार, कौन सा गंदगी सोने में बदल सकता है? आप सीखने के लिए आश्चर्यचकित हो सकते हैं कि एक रास्ता है। इस कहानी को सुनें और पता लगाएं।

बहुत पहले एशिया में बर्मा नामक देश में, एक युवा पत्नी रहती थी। वह अपने पति से बहुत प्यार करती थी, लेकिन उसके दिमाग में एक डर भारी था।

"पति," ने कहा, "पूरे दिन आप गंदगी सोने में बदलने की कोशिश करते हैं। आप और कुछ नहीं करते! जल्द ही, मुझे डर है कि हमारे सारे पैसे चले जाएंगे। "

"मैं यह हमारे लिए करता हूँ!" अपने पति ने कहा। "किसी दिन हम दोनों अमीर होंगे, और आप मुझे धन्यवाद देंगे!"

"अगर हम लंबे समय तक जीते हैं," उसकी पत्नी ने एक शांत आवाज़ में कहा। उसे पता था कि उसे मदद चाहिए, और इसलिए वह अपने पिता के घर गई।



"मैं यह हमारे लिए करता हूँ!" अपने पति ने कहा। "किसी दिन हम दोनों अमीर होंगे, और आप मुझे धन्यवाद देंगे!"



"पिताजी," उसने कहा। "सुबह से रात तक, मेरे पति गंदगी सोने में बदलने की कोशिश करता है। जल्द ही हम पैसे से बाहर होंगे। मैं उससे बात करने की कोशिश करता हूं, लेकिन वह नहीं सुनेंगे। कृपया, क्या आप उससे बात करेंगे? "

"मेरे प्रिय," उसके पिता ने कहा, "ज़ाहिर है।"

"धन्यवाद!" वह पहले से ही बेहतर महसूस कर रही थी।

अगले दिन, पिता अपनी बेटी के पति को देखने गए।

उसने कहा, "मैंने सुना है कि आप गंदगी को सोने में बदलने की कोशिश कर रहे हैं," उसने जवान आदमी से कहा।

युवा आदमी ने कहा, "मैं करूँगा!" "इसमें कुछ समय लगता है।"

पिताजी ने कहा, "मुझे पता है, और जवान आदमी आश्चर्यचकित हुआ। "आह! ऐसा कुछ है जो आप मेरे बारे में नहीं जानते। जब मैं तुम्हारी उम्र थी, मैं भी एक रसायनज्ञ था। "

युवा आदमी ने कहा, "तुम थे?"



"जब मैं तुम्हारी उम्र थी, मैं भी एक रसायनज्ञ था।"



पिता ने कहा, "और न केवल वह," लेकिन कई सालों बाद मुझे रहस्य पता चला। "

"तुम्हे पता है कैसै?"

बूढ़े आदमी ने कहा, "मैं करता हूं।" "लेकिन तब तक मैं बहुत बूढ़ा था और मेरे लिए इसे बाहर ले जाना बहुत मुश्किल था। मैं किसी को भी छोटा नहीं जानता था जिसे मैं भरोसा कर सकता था। "उसने अपने दामाद को आंखों में देखा।

"तुम मुझ पर भरोसा कर सकते हो!" जवान आदमी ने रोया। वह खुशी से कूद गया।

मुस्कुराते हुए चौड़े, दोनों ने हाथ हिलाया।

तब बूढ़े आदमी ने अपने दामाद को चांदी के पाउडर के बारे में बताया जो केला पत्तियों के पीछे बढ़ता है। केला के लिए बीज जमीन में लगाए जाने चाहिए जबकि एक विशेष जादू जादू के शब्द कहा जाता है। जब पौधे लंबे और परिपक्व हो जाते हैं, तो पत्तियों के पीछे से चांदी के पाउडर को ब्रश किया जाना चाहिए और बचाया जाना चाहिए।



मुस्कुराते हुए चौड़े, दोनों ने हाथ हिलाया।



युवा आदमी ने कहा, "इस चांदी के पाउडर की कितनी जरूरत है?"

पिता ने कहा, "दो पाउंड।"

"लेकिन वह सैकड़ों केला पौधों को ले जाएगा!" जवान आदमी रोया।

पिताजी ने कहा, "हां!" "यही कारण है कि यह मेरे लिए इसे बाहर ले जाने के लिए बहुत अधिक काम था! लेकिन अब, मैं जमीन किराए पर लेने और बीज खरीदने के लिए आपको धन उधार देने में सक्षम हूं। "

ऋण के साथ, जवान आदमी ने एक बड़ी साजिश किराए पर ली और जमीन को मंजूरी दे दी। उन्होंने उन पर जादू जादू कहकर बीज लगाए जिन्हें उन्होंने सीखा था। प्रत्येक दिन, जवान आदमी युवा पौधों की पंक्तियों पर चला गया। बहुत सावधानी से, उसने खरबूजे निकाली और कीटों को दूर रखा।

जब केले के पौधे लंबे और परिपक्व हो गए, तो जवान आदमी ने अपने पत्तों के पीछे से जादू चांदी के पाउडर को ब्रश किया। लेकिन केवल कुछ मुट्ठी पाउडर बचाया जा सकता है। उसे और जमीन खरीदनी पड़ी और अधिक केले बढ़ाना पड़ा। इसमें कुछ साल लगे, लेकिन अंत में उसके पास दो पाउंड थे। बहुत खुशी के साथ, वह अपने ससुर के घर गया।

"मेरे पास पर्याप्त चांदी का पाउडर है!" वह रोया।



बहुत खुशी के साथ, वह अपने ससुर के घर गया।



"महान!" अपने ससुर ने कहा। "अब मैं आपको दिखाऊंगा कि गंदगी को सोने में कैसे बदलना है! लेकिन सबसे पहले आपको केले के खेत से गंदगी की एक बाल्टी लेनी होगी। और आपको मेरी बेटी को ले जाना चाहिए - उसे भी जरूरी है।"

जवान आदमी समझ में नहीं आया क्यों, लेकिन वह खेत में भाग गया और गंदगी की एक बाल्टी खोद गया। तब उसकी पत्नी घर पर आई, और उनमें से दो बूढ़े आदमी के घर गए।

पिता ने अपनी बेटी से पूछा, "जब आपका पति केला पाउडर बचा रहा था, तो आपने केले के साथ क्या किया?"

"क्यों, मैंने उन्हें बेच दिया," उसने कहा। "इस तरह हम जीने में सक्षम हैं।"

"क्या आपने कोई पैसा बचाया?" पिता से पूछा।

"निश्चित रूप से," उसने कहा।

"क्या मैं इसे देख सकता हूं?" बूढ़े आदमी ने कहा। युवा महिला और उसके पति ने एक-दूसरे को एक त्वरित रूप दिया - यह अजीब था! लेकिन वह घर गई और एक बड़े बैग के साथ वापस आई। पिता ने देखा कि बैग के अंदर सोने के सिक्के थे।

"इसे नीचे सेट करें," उसने कहा। फिर उसने गंदगी की बाल्टी ली और उसे फर्श पर छोड़ दिया। उसने बैग लिया और गंदगी के बगल में एक ढेर में सोने के सिक्के डाले।

उसने कहा, "आप देखते हैं," अपने दामाद की ओर मुड़ते हुए, "तुमने गंदगी सोने में बदल दी है!"

जवान आदमी ने कहा, "क्या?"

"अच्छा मैं समझा!' बेटी ने कहा। "मेरे प्यारे," उसने कहा, अपने पति की ओर मुड़ते हुए। "तुमने गंदगी खेती की, और फिर हमने केले बेचे। अब हमारे पास सोने के सिक्के हैं! "

"लेकिन वह जादू नहीं है जो मुझे दिमाग में था," उसने कहा।

बेटी ने अपने पति को गाल पर एक चुंबन दिया, और वह मुस्कुरा दी।

"ठीक है," उसने कहा, "शायद यहां कुछ जादू है।"

"वास्तव में," पिता ने कहा। "अब चलो खाओ!"

तथा उनमें से तीन एक अच्छे, स्वादिष्ट रात के खाने के लिए बैठ गए।

10 Tips to Succeed in Job Interview

This is the second post of Job Interview Series. Hopefully you have already read the first post. If you have not read it, then read it once.

Job Interview Tips in Hindi

As per today, I will share 10 such things that I think are very important to get success in job interview with you. Apart from these things there are some important tips which I will share with you as Job Interview Dos & Don'ts in the post of tomorrow.


In these 10 Tips you will see the squeeze of my experience related to my interview. So let's know what 10 things to focus on in order to be successful in the interview is essential.


1) Take full care of creating CV / Resume:

The purpose of your CV should be to show to your potential employer why you are the best person for this job. Your CV itself is the first thing that goes in front of the interviewer. They can say that this is your first The impression happens.

If the interviewer does not like the CV good, or it shows childish mistakes, then his perception may be bad for you. And also keep in mind that your small things point to your big-grandchildren somewhere. If a person is inadvertent in making his CV, then there are many chances to do so in the job too, and the interviewer knows this well.



Must Read: How to Make a Perfect Resume or CV in 10 Minutes
It is also important to make CV good because candidates are sorted out on the basis of first CV in most companies, and if you are sorted out here, the rest of the tips will remain kept. So do not miss this most important step.

I can not tell how to create a CV here, but surely I can share some important points which you should pay attention to:

         Your CV should look professional.
         Use bullet points instead of large-scale paragraphs, they inspire interviewer more to read CVs.
         There should not be any spelling mistakes.
         If CV can be created in two pages then do not force them into four pages.
         Make a lot of changes in your CV according to different jobs.
         Try to highlight the points that are related to this job.
         After making the CV, take it from two to four people.

2) Give special attention to theoretical knowledge related to Job:

I am related to the insurance field for the last 5-6 years. I have fine knowledge of this field, but whenever I have an interview schedule, I repeat my old books, PPTs, and other resource material well.

Give equal importance to theoretical knowledge related to the job, I know some people who have a good knowledge of how practically they work, but they lack technical terms and theory, and because of this, Success was not found. You do not make such a mistake, and do not underestimate theoretical knowledge.

If I talk about it, then 60% of the entire preparation of the interview is given in this work. Here's the effort and simplification of things, your confidence increases, and the answers you give are clear. Interviewer also knows from the quality of the initial answers that you are a well prepared candidate or a casual candidate.

Interview should never take casually, this is a competition, you have to prove yourself better than others. And you can not do anything in any department. Therefore, pay any extra attention to theoretical knowledge related to the field you are going to give the interview.

I am not emphasizing the practical knowledge here because if you are a fresher then practical knowledge is not expected from you and if you are exeperienced then definitely you will have practical knowledge.


3) Keep yourself in the place of Employer:



Think of what you would find in an ideal candidate if you were an interviewer. Try to understand the specific requirement of job vacancy, and to meet those needs, you can showcase those qualities in the interview. On the other hand, you can also hide the qualities that do not fit for this job. .

For example: If you are going for a marketing job, you can highlight your travelling hobby, but if you are going for an operation job then you should not highlight it. You can make changes to your CV according to different job requirements, and make it even more effective.

Generally, an interviewer can work with your confidence, subject knowledge and stability, teamChecks, etc., it also happens that you are overqualified for some work, such as if the computer operator is working and if any MCA is interviewing for that job, the employer can choose to Hitchkega, because her job will be reduced in the hope of surviving. Therefore, if your qualification is more according to the job then it is better not to mention it. Similarly, when you look at your employer's place, there will be many things in your mind and you can prepare yourself accordingly.

.4) Prepare Frequently Asked Questions: Some questions are very common in job interviews, which are asked in almost every single interview. Prepare such questions well, as well as think about the questions that you can ask for your answer instead. Here I am giving a small list of such questions: Tell me about Yourself? / Walk me through you CV? / Introduce yourself / tell us about yourself? Do you have any questions? (This can be asked at the end of the Inerview.) Tell us about your current job, what about your current job, what is your work? Why do you want to join this company? Why is there a gap in your studies / job? Why is there a gap in your studies / job? / Why do you want to quit your current job? What are your weaknesses / strengths? / What is your weakness / strength? Why should we select you? / Why do you choose? Why did you choose this specialization? Why did you do this specialization? Why are your marks very low in XYZ exam? Why are your marks in Xyz exam so low? What is your biggest achievement till date? / What is your biggest achievement so far? Besides, some common questions related to your industry can also be asked, so study these questions in advance. That they should be crushed This is because your mental clarity remains. An outline of questions should be prepared in your mind, and at the time of the interview, he should be ready to speak in his own words. Example: If you suddenly ask your strength, then you will surely give a reply. But maybe later you feel you have missed your best, but if you are already prepared, then such a mistake will not happen.


 5) Run a complete interview process in Mind several times: Whenever I have to give an interview, before that I run the entire interview of 4-5 times in my mind. And this is very detailed. In this, I think about the smallest thing till the end of the morning, till the end of the interview. By doing so, mind becomes totally clear about many things. Like when to pick up, whether to revise, what to wear, how to go, how long to reach, what to go, how to keep gesture, how to introduce yourself, etc. It is most important Part is to visualize yourself while interacting with the interviewer. I think in my heart that the interviewer is asking a question, and then I am answering it. By doing so many times such questions come to mind those whose answers are not properly known, and then I prepare them well. Do not know how this technique looks like, but whenever I do it, there is some advantage of something. Now whether it comes to interviewing someone with an interview that is in the mind of a question or some small thing such as pressing clothes for the interview 🙂 ... but there is definitely some benefit.

6) Before the campus selection during Mock & Mirror PracticeMBA Many times mock interviews were given, and together with his friend, Dheeraj, were also for many people's mock interviews, we had also recorded these interviews with web-cam, which saw a lot of benefits from the people. If you do not have much experience in giving interview, you must also give Mock Interviews. To conduct an interview, you can request a friend or a senior who can give you a right feedback. Make this activity very seriously, this can teach you a lot. Because often we do not see those mistakes we make, but those other things can easily point out. Please note that while there is no confidence in you from this activity. Here, the interviewer has to show that he will also tell you about your improvement areas and increase your confidence. If you feel that you can lose confidence with this activity then do not do it. Instead place yourself in front of the mirror and give your interview, and if you like, then record it in your mobile too. When you hear your answers, you will see some improvement areas yourself.


 7) Note on Non-Verbal Communication: The communication that we communicate comes in two ways to the front. Verbally and Non-Verbally.Verbally, that is what we speak, or write, and non-verbally the rest, how we speak, what tone, our way of sitting, eye contact, even ourdressing sense According to different research, only 20% of our total communication is verbal and 80% non-verbal. Therefore it is very important to pay attention to this 80%. While interacting with the interviewer you have to pay attention to a few things: You will see that you are genuinely interested in this job. You can do this well by dressing up, reaching the venue from time to time. Your voice should not be dull, It is very important to show enthusiasm and confidence. A smile is essential when you meet for the first time, and you should also keep a friendly gesture during the interview. Your enthusiasm for a job will be reflected in your preparation, so be sure to give your homework an interview. Specially, you should be well informed about the company, and also know about the current developments related to your field. Note: You can read this article to improve your confidence level.

 8) Do not answer contradictory answers: Interviewers can ask for your honesty, or just ask some of those questions which are related to each other. Example: If you have already said that this is your dream company, but When it is asked what the company offers, and you can not tell properly, then this is the message that on one side it is your dream company and on the other hand you do not even have basic information about it. So, that does not mean you are honest. You have written your hobby Playing Cricket in the CV and if you tell the Playing Chess in the interview, then the interviewer will definitely doubt you. It is only right to speak the truth in the interview, but if you have spoken a lot in excitement or nervousness Hold on to the answer, and do not contradict it during the entire interview.

 9) Interview in the language that is comfortable, if you are expert in talking both English and Hindi, you can skip this point but if you Are not comfortable in english So you can be an important point. If you see today, most job interviews are in English, but in many places where there may be interviews in Hindi, people also try to give an interview in English itself. Look, it is better to speak the correct english than to speak the correct Hindi. Yes, if the job is such that without English work, such as International Call Center, etc, then you try to talk only in English, but if There is no such job where Hindi can work as well, then talk in Hindi only. In the beginning of the interview, you can ask the social worker that I can answer the questions in Hindi? Can I give my reply in Hindi? In most cases you should get the answer in yes only. And then you can give your complete interview with Hindi + English. Actually, in many jobs, you just need to understand English, even if you can not speak it. But the ability to understand or read by reading is also enough to do that work, and the Interviewer also understands this. The biggest advantage of doing this is that you will be able to express yourself well and you will be able to bring any knowledge related to that job to the interviewer easily. And when you do this your chance of success will definitely increase. Note: To learn English, you can read this article.                           


10) Keep thinking that if selection is good then something better will be better: Do not be too over conscious to be selected in the interview. Even if you are not selected, the world will not be here again, in fact After a few months you may not even remember that you had appeared in such an interview. Those with a positive attitude assume that whatever happens is good. I had an interview for the trainer at Max Newyork Life in 2010, but luckily my selection was not there. Fortunately, because as many people as as a trainer were taken at that time, they were removed within 6 months because of the poor condition of market conditions. On the other hand, my selection happened a few days later in HCL Technologies, which is a work culture And monetarily, both were good for me, and thanks to this job, I also got the chance to go to Finland, Europe. 🙂


Friends, I hope that the things shared here will be useful and you will be able to improve your success rate in the interview. I will be waiting for your feedback and related questions related to the interview.

Thinking is made ...........

The Law of Attraction or Theory of Attraction says that you attract something that you think about in your life. One of your strongest ideas is to get rid of some other way. But Law of Attraction gives rise to some of the questions whose answers are not easy. But I believe that the problem is not due to Attraction, but rather how to apply Law of Attraction to objective reality. .

Here are some such problematic questions (these are the generalizations of those questions which I have received by email)

 What happens when people's intention (intention, thinking, thinking, purpose) conflict, as if two people think of the same promotion, while the same place is empty?
Does the small children, or even the intentions of the animals work?
If a child is raped, does that mean that he had made such intentions?
If I want to do my relation good but my / my spouse does not pay attention to it, what will happen?
These questions weaken the likelihood of the law of attraction. Occasionally people who believe in Law of Attraction go a bit further to justify it. For Exapmle, he says that misdeeds with the child happened because he had thought about it in his previous birth. Brother, we can explain anything to such a thing, but in my eyes, it is a matter of redemption.



I have never been satisfied with the answers given to these questions by others, and if it is to believe in Law of Attraction then it is important to know the answers. Some books make an attempt to answer them, but they can not answer satisfactorily. But the correct answer can be found in the concept of subjective reality (person - integrity).

Subjective Reality is a belief system in which

 (1) There is only one consciousness (consciousness)

 (2) You are the same consciousness,

 (3) Every thing, every person who is in reality, is the result of your own thinking.

Perhaps you will not be able to easily see but the subjective reality gives answer to all the tricky questions of Law of Attraction with great clarity. I explain ...

There is only one consciousness in the subjective reality - your consciousness. Therefore, there is only one source of intentions in the entire universe - you Even though you see all the people coming in reality, talking, they all exist within your consciousness. You know that your dreams work the same way, but you do not realize that your waking reality is a kind of dream. That sounds just right because you believe that it is true.

Since any other person you meet is a part of your dream, no one other than you can have any intention. Only you are the intentions. You are the only person to think in the whole Universe.

It is important to define "you" in the subjective reality. "You" is not your body. "You" is not important to you. I am not saying that you are a conscious body who are roaming between the unconscious machines. This is exactly the opposite of the understanding of subjective reality. The correct viewpoint is that you are a lonely consciousness in which all reality is decreasing.



Imagine that you are dreaming. What are you really in that dream? Are you the one you are looking for yourself in a dream? No, not at all, that is the embodiment of your dream. You are a dreamer. The whole dream is in your consciousness. All the characters of the dream are the result of your thinking, including your own incarnation. Actually, if you learn lucid dreaming you can change your avatar in your dream itself. In Lucid dreaming you can do everything you can do that you are sure to do.

Physical reality works like this. This universe is somewhat dense compared to the universe of your dream, so here the change gradually happens. But this reality is also in line with your thoughts, just like your dreams are in line with your thinking. "You" are the dreamer in whose dream this is happening. meant to say; It is an illusion that more people have intentions, they are just the result of your thinking.

Of course, if you very strongly believe that there are others' intentions, then you will make such a dream for yourself. But ultimately it is an illusion, it is an illusion.

So let's see how Subjective Reality answers the difficult questions of Law of Attraction:

What happens when people's intention (intention, thinking, thinking, purpose) conflict, as if two people think of the same promotion, while the same place is empty?

Since you are the only person whose intentions are, this is just an internal conflict - inside of you You are giving birth to the idea that both the people want the same position. But you are also thinking (intending) that the same personCan get this position. .This means that you are intend competition. This whole situation is the creation of you only. You believe in competition, so the same decreases in your life. Perhaps you have some beliefs (thoughts and intentions), who will get promotions, so your expectation will become reality. But maybe you believe that life is unfair is uncertain, so you can get some surprise in this because you are intending the same. Having a single intender in your reality puts a heavy responsibility on your shoulders. Thinking that the world is uncertain is unfair, etc., you can leave control of its reality, but you can not leave your responsibility. You are the only creativity of this Universe. If you think of war, poverty, disease, etc. you will have to see this. If you think of peace, love, happiness, then you will see all this happening in reality. Whenever you think about something, then they actually invoke the thought to appear in reality.Is the motives of small children, or even animals, works? No, even your body has no intention Does not happen - only the intentions of your consciousness are there. You are alone who have intentions, so it is what you think for children or animals. If every thought is an intention, then you will think of them as well, in reality, they will be the same. Keep in mind that the beliefs are hierarchical, so if the reality of your belief is uncertain, uncontrollable is more powerful then it will suppress your other beliefs, in which you are less sure. The collection of all your thoughts decides what you will see in reality. If a child is raped, does that mean that he had made such intentions? This means that you had intend like this. You intend to think about child abuse and to be in reality. The more you think about child abuse (or about anything else), in the same reality you will see its expanse. The one you think about is expanding, and that is not limited to you, but it happens in the whole universe. If I want to do my relation good but my / my spouse does not pay attention to it then what will happen ? This is another example of intending conflict. You are doing an intention of your incarnation and one of your spouse, then the real intention that arises is conflict. So whatever you experience, based on your higher order, it is your conflict with your spouse. If your thoughts are conflicted then your reality will also be conflicted. Therefore, taking responsibility for your thoughts is so important. If you want to see peace in the world then intend peace for everything in your reality. If you want to enjoy loving relationships then intend loving relationships for everyone. If you intend only for yourself and not for others, then it means that you are intending conflict, division, separation, and as a result you will experience this. If you think about something Will he leave if he leaves? Yes, technically he will disappear But practically it is almost impossible to uncreate what you have created. You will focus on these issues and increase them. But when you are feeling truly 100% responsible for whatever you are experiencing in reality then you will have the power in which you can change your reality by changing your thoughts. All this reality is made of you. Feel good about it Be grateful for the world's richness. And then start building the reality with your decisions and intentions that you really want. Think about it that you want, and remove your focus from those who do not want you. The easiest and natural way to do this is to pay attention to your emotions. Thinking about your desires makes you happy and think about what you do not want to feel bad about. When you notice that you are feeling bad, then understand that you are thinking about something you do not want. Take your focus back to what you want, your emotional state will improve rapidly. When you begin to do this again and again, you will also see a change in your physical reality, first slowly and later in a big way. I am also the result of your consciousness. I do just as you expect me to. If you expect me to be a helpful guide, then I will be like that. If you expect me to be intimate and practical, then I will become like that. If you expect me to be confused and deceived, then I will become like that. But I am not such a "I" who is different from you. I'm just one of your creations. I am what you intend for me. And somewhere you already know this, why is it not?

I can tell how your life will be!

No, I am not an astrologer, but still I can tell you how your life will be!



For this, all you have to do is tell me how on an average you spend your day.


Friends, this life is created only by one day, and the way we spend our days, our weeks, months and years pass, and in our life, our life passes.

So if you carefully look at this and understand how your one day is going then you can understand how your life is going to be.

You just waste time around the day without planning anything, and in the end, you will find life waste.
If you step by step thinking about achieving any goal every day, then in the end you will be living life worth living.
You are between them (like most of us) then you are going to be the life of an average human being.
Motivational guru Robin Sharma has said -

What you are doing today is actually making your future. The words you are speaking, those thoughts are thinking, those who are eating food and those who are taking action are defining your destiny - deciding what you are becoming and how you will be living.

By making a real self-assessment we can see our life trajectory. You can see, if we continue to walk then where will we finally reach



It is important to look at this because you may not realize what will be the result of it being lost one day or so, but when you see the result of your current living pattern today, then you are inspired to make changes in your life. Can.

And a small change brought today can change your whole life trajectory.

Remember today those who are at the peak of success, they are not very different from us ... in the presence, not in intelligence, in the situation ... but even today they are there where they wanted to be ... and they are just like one big Not able to carry by step ... Rather they have reached their destination with small steps taken every day.

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Are you ready to take small steps today that will change your tomorrow? Are you ready to live up to your day in a new way so that your life, created by adding these days, will also become new?

Remember, every day is the first day of your life ... Make that day great .... Life will become great by itself.

All the best!

7 Habits That Can Make You Super Successful

Your life just does not decrease simply. Whether you know it or not, it is designed by you. After all, you choose your own options. You choose happiness. You choose sorrow. You choose the certainty. You choose your uncertainty. You choose your own success. You choose your failure. You choose courage. You choose the fear. Remember that every single moment, every single situation gives you a new alternative. And in such a way, you always have the opportunity to do things differently and produce positive results for yourself.

Habit 1: Be Be proactive / proactive
Being proactive means being responsible for your life. You can not blame your parents or grandparents for everything. Proactive people understand that they are "response-able". They do not blame genetics, circumstance, or perception for their conduct. They know that they choose their own behavior. On the other hand, those who are reactive on the other hand are mostly affected by their physical environment. They blame external things for their behavior. If the weather is good, then they like it. And if not, it affects their attitude and performance, and they blame the weather. All external forces work like a stimulus, on which we react. Your biggest strength lies in the same excitement and the reaction you make on it - and that is the fact that freedom is that you can choose your own reaction on your own. One very important thing is that you can choose what you say. The language you use indicates how you see yourself. A proactive person uses proactive language - I can, I will, etc. A reactive person uses reactive language - I can not, if it happens, etc. Reactive people think that they are not responsible for what they say and do - they have no choice. They have no choice. They have no choice.





Instead of reacting or worrying on situations which can not be controlled at all or at least a little bit, proactive people put their time and energy in things that they can control. Whatever problems, challenges or opportunities we have before us, we can divide them into two areas:



Circle of Concern (area of ​​concern)
Circle of Influence (Area of ​​Influence )
Proactive people focus their efforts on the Circle of Influence. They work on things they can do about something like: health, children, workplace problems. Reactive people focus their efforts on the Circle of Concern: debt, terrorism, weather on the country. Knowing that what we spend in our energy, is a big step towards becoming proactive.

Habit 2: Begin with the End in Mind Start by keeping the end in mind
So what do you want to become a grown up? Perhaps this question may sound strange, but you think about it for a moment. Are you still the ones you wanted to be made, whose dream you saw, are you doing what you always wanted to do? Think honestly. Many times it happens that people see themselves winning such a win which is actually hollow- such a success, in exchange for which big things have to be sung. If your ladder is not on the right wall then whatever steps you take takes you to the wrong place.


Habit 2 is based on your imagination or imagination - that is your ability to show you things in your mind that you can not see with your eyes. It is based on the principle that everything is created twice. First mental creation, and second physical creation Just as a house is built after the blue-print is created, so is the creation of a physical creation only after having a mental creation. If you do not visualize yourself what you doIf you want to become and what you want to be, then you leave the decision on how your life will be and on other situations. Habit 2 is about how you recognize your character, and then can keep yourself happy and complete within your personal, moral and ethical guidelines. To begin with, keeping in mind the end, it means starting every day, work or project with a clear vision of what our direction and what destination should be, and then proactively take up the task to complete that work. The priceless idea on Imagination is the best way to get Habit 2 into practice, to make a Personal Mission Statement of your own. Its focus will be on what you want to be and what you want to do. This is your planning for success. It confirms who you are, puts your goals in focus, and brings your ideas to this world. Your Mission Statement makes you the leader of your life. You make your destiny yourself, and those dreams you have seen come true. Habit 3: Put First Things First Prioritize Primary Things To live a balanced life, you have to understand that you have everything in this life can not do. There is no need to engage in more work than yourself. Do not hesitate to say "no" when necessary, and then focus on your important priorities. Habit 1 says, "You are in charge. You are the creator ". Being proactive is your own choice. Habit 2 is about to visualize things in the first brain. Starting with the end in mind, it is related to vision. Habit 3 is about the second creation, i.e. physical creation. Habit 1 and Habit 2 have sex in this habit. And it happens every moment all the time. It deals with many questions related to Time Management. But this is not all that. Habit is also about 3 life management-your purpose, values, roles, and priorities. What are "Primary Things"? The primary things are those, which you personally consider the most valuable. If you prefer to prioritize primary tasks, you are putting your time, your energy, on the priorities set by you in Habit 2. Habit 4: Think Win-Win Always Think of Winning Think Win-Win Is not about, nor is it a short-cut. This is a code based on character that interacts and collaborates with other people. Most of us do our assessment based on comparison and competition from others. We see our success in the failure of others-that is, if I win, you lose, if you win then I lose. In this way life becomes a zero-sum game. As if there is only one bread, and if the second takes a bigger share, then I will get less, and I will try that others do not get much. We all play these games, but you think how much fun it is? Win-Win sees life as a co-operation, not like competition. Win-Win is a state of mind and heart that continually motivates everyone to think about the benefit of everyone. Win-Win means such agreements and solutions that are beneficial and satisfactory to everyone. All things are eaten in it, and they taste great. A person or organization who tries to solve problems with the Win-Win attitude, there are three main things in it: Integrity / Loyalty: Your values, Do not compromise with commitments and feelings Maturity / Maturity: Put your ideas and feelings in front of others and cherish the thoughts and feelings of others. Abundance Mentality / Mindset of Abundance: Be sure to believe in this. Not so much for the lot of people think in terms of either-or: either you're good or you desperately. Both Win-Win is required. It's like balance between courage and understanding. To win Win-Win, you will not only be sympathetic but also self-confident. You will not only be thoughtful and sensitive but also brave. To do this, balance is established in the concept and consideration, that is the real maturity, and is very important for Win-Win. Habit 5: Seek First to Understand, then understand the others, then explain your point of Communication Life The most important is the skill. You spend many years studying to read-write and speak. But what is the hearing? What training have you received, which teaches you to listen to others, so that you can understand the person in the right way? Maybe no one? Why? If you are like most people, maybe you too would like to explain your point of view first. And in doing so, you will completely ignore the other person, show that you are listening, but actually you just listen to words but they are completely missed by their true meaning. Good speaker? 17 Tips Why Think It Is? Because most people hear with the intention that they have to answer, do not understand. You listen to yourself inside and prepare to do what you have to say next, ask questions, etc. Whatever you listen to, it touches you through your life-experiences. You compare what you hear with your autobiography whether it is right or wrong. And because of this you have to talk about the otherThey make an impression in their mind that what the next is saying is what they want to say. Do these sentences seem to be heard by some hearing? "Hey, I know how you are feeling. It was the same with me. "" It was the same with me too. "" I tell you what I did at that time. "Since you listen to others according to the experiences of your life. You answer in one of these four ways: Evaluating / evaluation: First you judge, agree or disagree after that. Probing / inquiry: You answer your questions according to your advice. Interpreting / explaining: You analyze the motives and behaviors of others according to your experience. Perhaps you are thinking that what is evil in relating to someone with your experience? It may be appropriate to do this in some situations, such as when someone tells you to tell you something based on your experiences, when you have a trust relationship between the two. But it is not always appropriate to do this. Habit 6: Synergize / Tail-matching: Understanding in simple words, "Two brains are better than one" Synergize means constructive support. This is team-work. It is open minded to find out the new diagnosis of old problems. But this yahoo just does not happen automatically. This is a process, and through the same process, people can use their experience and expertise. Together they alone can get a better result than they are. From Synergy, we find so many things together that rarely find when we search for them alone. This is the idea in which the whole is greater than the sum of the parts. One plus one equals three, or six, or sixty- or more When people start interacting with each other honestly, and are open to being influenced by each other, then they start getting new information. Differences among themselves increase the ability to invent new methods multiplied. Importance of conflicts is the core of synergy. Do you really value those who are psychologically, emotional, and psychological differences? Or do you want all the people to listen to you so that you can move forward easily? Many people understand unity as unity. Should see mutual differences as weakness, not as strength. Habit 7: Sharpen the Saw / Sharpen the ax A Sharpen the Saw means to keep your own property safe. It means designing a program for yourself that will renew your four areas of life in physical, social / emotional, mental, and spiritual. Below are examples of some such activities: physical / physical: good food, exercise, relax, social / emotional / social / emotional: social and meaningful relationship with others. Mental / mental: reading-writing, learning-learning. Spiritual / Spiritual: Spend time with nature, meditate, serve. As you - like you will improve yourself in every area, you will bring progress and change in your life. Sharpen the Saw keeps you fresh so that you can practice the remaining six habits well. Doing this increases your ability to face challenges. Without doing so your body becomes weak, the brain becomes insensitive, the emotions get cold, the nature becomes insensitive, and the person becomes selfish. And this is not a good picture, why? You feel good, it does not happen by itself. The purpose of living a balanced life is to remove the necessary time to renew yourself. It's all up to you. You can relax yourself and renew it. Or burn every one by doing excessive work. You can love yourself mentally and spiritually, or you can be unaware of your well-being. You can experience the vibrant energy inside you or by avoiding the loss of good health and exercise benefits. You can revive yourself and welcome a new day with peace and harmony. Or you can get up with sadness and see the day pass by. Just remember that every day gives you a new opportunity to renew yourself, gives opportunity, to recharge itself. Just need Desire (desire), Knowledge (knowledge) and Skills (skills).

How to keep your spark in the fire?

Thank you all for giving me a chance to speak here. These days are about you You, who have come to this college, in the comfort of your home and leaving difficulties in some cases, so that you can become something in life. I'm sure you are excited. There are few days in life when a person really is very happy. The first day of college is one of them.

When you were getting ready today, there would be a stir in your stomach. How will the auditorium be, how will teachers be, who will be my new classmates - so much to be curious ... I call it excitement, that spark inside you that makes you feel completely alive. Today I have come to talk to you about burning this spark. In other words-

 How can we be happy if we do not always?

Where is the beginning of this spark?



I think we are born with it. There are millions of sparks in my 3 year old twins. They jump from a little spider-man's bed watching the toy. Swinging in the park, they become thrilled. The excitement is filled up by listening to a story from father. Months before their birthdays, they start counting that the cake will be bitten on that day.

I look at students like you and I see some sparks in you. But when I see more big people, it is hard to see. This means, as our age increases, spark becomes less. Such people in which these sparks are completely eliminated, they become despondent, non-targeted and bitter. Jab We met the first half Kareena and Kareena of the second half, do not you? This is what the spark goes out.

So how to save this spark?

Imagine like a flame given to Spark. First of all, it needs to nurture-it needs constant fuel. Second, it needs to be protected from the typhoon.

To nurture, always aim. This person has the tendency to try, to bring improvement and to achieve what he can achieve best. Actually, it is called success. This is what is possible for you. This is not an external measurement - like a package given by company, no car or a house.

Most of us are from the middle-class family. For us, physical pleasures are indicators of success, and it is also right. When you grow up and money becomes necessary to meet the needs of everyday life, it is a great achievement to have financial freedom in such a way.

But this is not the purpose of life. If that happens then Mr. Ambani does not go to work. Shah Rukh Khan does not live at home and does not dance much. Steve Jobs also does not work hard to make good iPhone, because by selling Pixar he has already got billions of dollars. Why do they do that? What is it that takes them to work every day?

He does this because he gives them happiness. They do this because they make them feel alive. Improving your existing level gives you a good feeling. If you read hard then you can improve your rank. If you try to interact with people you will be good at the interview. If you practice, then your cricket will improve. Perhaps you also know that you can not become Tendulkar right now, but you can go to the next level. It is important to try to move to the next level.

Nature has designed us according to the combination of many genes and different circumstances. To be happy, we have to accept it, and nature should take the maximum benefit of this design. Goals will help you in doing this.



Do not just make career or educational goals for yourself. Make goals that give you a balanced and successful life. There is no point in getting promotion on the day of your break-up. There is no fun in running a car if you have pain in the back. If the brain is full of tension, what would be happy to do so?

You must have read some quotes - life is a tough race, it's a marathon or something else. Not so, what I have seen till today -

Life is like a race in nursery schools in which you run the marble kept in a spoon in your mouth. If the marble falls, there is no sense to come first in the race.

It is with the same life where health and relationships are symbols of that marble. Your effort is only as long as it brings harmony in your life. Otherwise, you may succeed, but this spark, it will be excited and the feeling of being alive will start to die slowly!

One last thing about nurturing Spark - do not take life away from worry ... .don't take life seriously During one of my yoga teacher classes, I used to laugh at the students. A student asked if the time of yoga practice is not wasted due to these jokes? Then the teacher said - "Do not be serious be sincere."

Since then this quote has define my work. Whether it is my writing, my job, my relationship or any other goal. I get opinions of thousands of people daily on my writings. There is a lot of admiration, much criticism. If I take all of these seriously, how will I write? Or, how will you live?

Life is not to be taken seriously, we are all temporary here. We are all like a pre-paid cardLimited validity. If we are lucky then we may be able to live for the next fifty years and live. And 50 years i.e. just 2500 weekends. Should we really dunk ourselves? Bunking some classes, doing less score in some papers, not getting some interviews, getting out of work, falling in love, having little fights from spouse ... all right ... we are all humans, not programmed devices! Tell three things - do not take reasonable goals, balance and life very seriously - which will nurture sparks.But four big storms in life will try to extinguish your giving. It is very important to avoid them. These are disappointments, frustration, injustice and unjustity in life (loneliness of purpose.) Disappointment will be when your efforts do not give you the results you want. When things are not according to your plan or when you fail. Handling the failure is very difficult, but the one who takes it turns out to be stronger. What did I learn from this failure? This question should be asked by yourself. You will feel very helpless, you want to leave everything as I wanted, when my first book was rejected by 9 publishers. Some IITians lose themselves due to low-grade, how big is this stupid? But this thing can be understood that the extent of failure can hurt you. But this is life. If challenges can always be overcome, then there will be no challenges to the challenges. And remember - if you are failing in something, then it means you are reaching your limits or abilities. And here you want to be. Brother of disappointment is frustration, second hurricane. Have you ever been frustrate? This happens when things get stuck. This is particularly relevant in India. From the traffic jam to getting your worth job. Sometimes things take so much time that you do not know that you have set the right goals for yourself. After writing books, I made the goal of writing bollywood, I thought they needed writers. I think people are very lucky but it took me five years to get close to my first movie release. Frustration ends excitement, and turns your energy into negativity, and makes you bitter. How do I deal with this? Find out the realistic guess of the time it takes. Even if it takes less time to watch the movie but it takes a lot of time to make it, instead of end-result, enjoy the process of reaching that result, I was learning at least script-writing, and as a side-plan I also had to write my third book and besides friends, eating and drinking, walking helps all to overcome the frustration. Keep it, do not take any thing seriously Land. Frustration, there is a hint somewhere that you are taking things very seriously. Unfairness (injustice) - It is hard to deal with, but unfortunately, there is such a thing in our own country. Those who have connections, they have big fathers, they have beautiful faces and pedigree, they are easily accessible not just in Bollywood but everywhere. And sometimes it's just a matter of luck. There are very few opportunities in India, so to be something, all the planets and constellations must be in the right position. The achievements in the short-term are not according to your merit and hard-work, but in long-term it will definitely be accordingly, things eventually work out. But understand this thing that some people will be lucky to you.In fact if you look at Indian standards, you get an opportunity to study in college, and having the ability to understand this speech in English makes you quite lucky. Whatever we have, we should be grateful for that, and we must have the power to accept whatever is not. I get so much love from my readers that other writers can not think about it. But I do not get a literary appreciation. I do not look like Aishwarya Rai but I understand that both of my sons are more beautiful than them. It is OK. Do not let the unfairness extinguish the spark inside it. And the last thing that can eliminate your spark is that Isolation (the situation of separation from others). As you grow older, you will realize that you are unique. When you are young, everyone looks good with ice-cream and spider-man. Even when you go to college, you are very much like your other friends. But after ten years you know that you are unique. Whatever you want, whatever you believe in, can be different from those closest to you. This may cause conflict because your goals do not match with others. And maybe you drop some of them. After being the captain of the Basketball in college, the other would be a little boy-if they leave the game playing. What he liked so much left him. They do this for their family. But Spark is finished in doing so. Never compromise such a thing. First love yourself, then others. I told you about four thunderstorms - disappointment, frustration, unfairness and isolation. You can not avoid them, like the monsoon, they will continue to come in your life again and again. All you have to do is prepare your raincoat so that the spark is extinguished inside you.
Do not get me.I once again welcome you at the best time of your life. If someone gives me the option of going back in time then surely I would like to go back to college. I hope that even after ten years, your eyes will have the same shine as it is today, I hope that you will keep your spark not only in the college but also the next 2500 weekends. And I hope that not only you but the entire country will keep this spark alive, because it is needed more than any other time in history. And it would be great to say that - I keep from the land of Billion Sparks Thank you.

How to Get Rid Of Negative Thoughts?............................

Suppose you have a bad habit of thinking about the same negative thought over and over again. And suppose that there is no expression of that thinking in the real world. That's just a negative thought, such as "I'm very depressed" or "I hate my job" or "I can not do this" or "I hate my obesity." How can you get rid of any bad habit He is completely in your mind?

Actually, there are many ways to change negative thinking patterns. The basic idea is to replace the old thinking pattern with the new one. Resisting mentally negative thinking can be reversed - you will make it stronger and the situation will get worse. The more you neurons fire in the same direction, your negative thinking will become as powerful.



Here is a method that I use to break my negative thought patterns. This is basically made by mixing a memory technique called 'chaining'. This method works very well for me.

Instead of trying to oppose the negative Thought pattern, you change its direction. Think of it as a mental kung fu. Take the energy of negative thinking and turn it towards positive thinking. Whenever you have negative thoughts in your mind with a little mental conditioning, your mind will be divert towards your own positive thought. It's like Pavlov's dogs who learn to instill saliva on the bell.

It works like this:

Suppose your negative thought is a subvocalization, meaning you hear a voice from inside which you want to change, such as, "I am idiot" If your negative thought is a sound rather than a mental image (a picture that comes in the mind) or kinesthetic (feeling inwardly

), You can still use this process. In many cases, your idea can be a combination of these three too.

Step 1: Turn your negative thought into a mental image.
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Listen to that voice and make a picture of it in your mind. For example, if you think that, "I am idiot", imagine that you are wearing silly clothes and jumping around with a joker hat. People standing around you are showing fingers on your side and you are screaming, "I am idiot" you will see this film as much as you can. You can think of artful colors, plenty of animation, even some sex, if it helps you remember. Keep practicing this scene again and again until you start thinking of negative line from your mind only because of negative thoughts.

If you have trouble portraying that idea, then you can give it a form of voice too. Turn your negative thought into a voice, like a tune that you humming. Imagine sounding in the process, whether it is a sound or a picture, both of them will do the work. Well I prefer to imagine a picture.

 Step 2: Choose a powerful positive thought to replace that negative thought.

Now decide what you want to replace negative thinking to choose which positive thought. Like if you keep thinking that "I am idiot," then you probably would like to replace him, "I am brilliant." Choose a thinking that empowers you in something that weakens the effect of that negative thought.



Step 3: Now switch your positive thought into a mental image
Once again, make a mental image for your positive thought just like Step 1. For example, in the thinking "brilliant in", you can imagine yourself standing like a superman standing on both hands on the waist. And you can imagine that a bulb is burning on your head right away. is. The bulb is shining with a very bright light, and you are screaming loudly, "I am bbbbrrrrrilllliannnnttt!". Keep practicing it until you get a positive line thinking that positive mental image of your imagination started coming from your mind.

Step 4: Now add both the mental images together.
Paste both of your mind into the first image you have thought of in Step 1 and Step 3. This is used in the memory technique called trick chaining. In it you first convert the picture to another. I suggest you do this as an animated movie. In this, you have an idea of ​​the negative picture and lasting picture, just to fill a small animation in between.

For example, in the first scene, someone throws a light bulb on your idiot version. And you catch that bulb, and when you hold it, the bulb starts to grow, and it gives you such a strong light that people surrounded you will be shocked Are there. Then you tear your silly clothes and throw them and appear in the shining white clothes. You stand with full confidence like Superman and yell loudly, "I am bbbbrrrrrillllliannnnttt!" And then those people sit on their knees and start worshiping you. Once again, the more you think about it, the better it will be. Increasing thinking will help you remember the scene because our brain is designed to remember unusual things.