Your life just does not decrease simply. Whether you know it or not, it is designed by you. After all, you choose your own options. You choose happiness. You choose sorrow. You choose the certainty. You choose your uncertainty. You choose your own success. You choose your failure. You choose courage. You choose the fear. Remember that every single moment, every single situation gives you a new alternative. And in such a way, you always have the opportunity to do things differently and produce positive results for yourself.
Habit 1: Be Be proactive / proactive
Being proactive means being responsible for your life. You can not blame your parents or grandparents for everything. Proactive people understand that they are "response-able". They do not blame genetics, circumstance, or perception for their conduct. They know that they choose their own behavior. On the other hand, those who are reactive on the other hand are mostly affected by their physical environment. They blame external things for their behavior. If the weather is good, then they like it. And if not, it affects their attitude and performance, and they blame the weather. All external forces work like a stimulus, on which we react. Your biggest strength lies in the same excitement and the reaction you make on it - and that is the fact that freedom is that you can choose your own reaction on your own. One very important thing is that you can choose what you say. The language you use indicates how you see yourself. A proactive person uses proactive language - I can, I will, etc. A reactive person uses reactive language - I can not, if it happens, etc. Reactive people think that they are not responsible for what they say and do - they have no choice. They have no choice. They have no choice.
Instead of reacting or worrying on situations which can not be controlled at all or at least a little bit, proactive people put their time and energy in things that they can control. Whatever problems, challenges or opportunities we have before us, we can divide them into two areas:
Circle of Concern (area of concern)
Circle of Influence (Area of Influence )
Proactive people focus their efforts on the Circle of Influence. They work on things they can do about something like: health, children, workplace problems. Reactive people focus their efforts on the Circle of Concern: debt, terrorism, weather on the country. Knowing that what we spend in our energy, is a big step towards becoming proactive.
Habit 2: Begin with the End in Mind Start by keeping the end in mind
So what do you want to become a grown up? Perhaps this question may sound strange, but you think about it for a moment. Are you still the ones you wanted to be made, whose dream you saw, are you doing what you always wanted to do? Think honestly. Many times it happens that people see themselves winning such a win which is actually hollow- such a success, in exchange for which big things have to be sung. If your ladder is not on the right wall then whatever steps you take takes you to the wrong place.
Habit 2 is based on your imagination or imagination - that is your ability to show you things in your mind that you can not see with your eyes. It is based on the principle that everything is created twice. First mental creation, and second physical creation Just as a house is built after the blue-print is created, so is the creation of a physical creation only after having a mental creation. If you do not visualize yourself what you doIf you want to become and what you want to be, then you leave the decision on how your life will be and on other situations. Habit 2 is about how you recognize your character, and then can keep yourself happy and complete within your personal, moral and ethical guidelines. To begin with, keeping in mind the end, it means starting every day, work or project with a clear vision of what our direction and what destination should be, and then proactively take up the task to complete that work. The priceless idea on Imagination is the best way to get Habit 2 into practice, to make a Personal Mission Statement of your own. Its focus will be on what you want to be and what you want to do. This is your planning for success. It confirms who you are, puts your goals in focus, and brings your ideas to this world. Your Mission Statement makes you the leader of your life. You make your destiny yourself, and those dreams you have seen come true. Habit 3: Put First Things First Prioritize Primary Things To live a balanced life, you have to understand that you have everything in this life can not do. There is no need to engage in more work than yourself. Do not hesitate to say "no" when necessary, and then focus on your important priorities. Habit 1 says, "You are in charge. You are the creator ". Being proactive is your own choice. Habit 2 is about to visualize things in the first brain. Starting with the end in mind, it is related to vision. Habit 3 is about the second creation, i.e. physical creation. Habit 1 and Habit 2 have sex in this habit. And it happens every moment all the time. It deals with many questions related to Time Management. But this is not all that. Habit is also about 3 life management-your purpose, values, roles, and priorities. What are "Primary Things"? The primary things are those, which you personally consider the most valuable. If you prefer to prioritize primary tasks, you are putting your time, your energy, on the priorities set by you in Habit 2. Habit 4: Think Win-Win Always Think of Winning Think Win-Win Is not about, nor is it a short-cut. This is a code based on character that interacts and collaborates with other people. Most of us do our assessment based on comparison and competition from others. We see our success in the failure of others-that is, if I win, you lose, if you win then I lose. In this way life becomes a zero-sum game. As if there is only one bread, and if the second takes a bigger share, then I will get less, and I will try that others do not get much. We all play these games, but you think how much fun it is? Win-Win sees life as a co-operation, not like competition. Win-Win is a state of mind and heart that continually motivates everyone to think about the benefit of everyone. Win-Win means such agreements and solutions that are beneficial and satisfactory to everyone. All things are eaten in it, and they taste great. A person or organization who tries to solve problems with the Win-Win attitude, there are three main things in it: Integrity / Loyalty: Your values, Do not compromise with commitments and feelings Maturity / Maturity: Put your ideas and feelings in front of others and cherish the thoughts and feelings of others. Abundance Mentality / Mindset of Abundance: Be sure to believe in this. Not so much for the lot of people think in terms of either-or: either you're good or you desperately. Both Win-Win is required. It's like balance between courage and understanding. To win Win-Win, you will not only be sympathetic but also self-confident. You will not only be thoughtful and sensitive but also brave. To do this, balance is established in the concept and consideration, that is the real maturity, and is very important for Win-Win. Habit 5: Seek First to Understand, then understand the others, then explain your point of Communication Life The most important is the skill. You spend many years studying to read-write and speak. But what is the hearing? What training have you received, which teaches you to listen to others, so that you can understand the person in the right way? Maybe no one? Why? If you are like most people, maybe you too would like to explain your point of view first. And in doing so, you will completely ignore the other person, show that you are listening, but actually you just listen to words but they are completely missed by their true meaning. Good speaker? 17 Tips Why Think It Is? Because most people hear with the intention that they have to answer, do not understand. You listen to yourself inside and prepare to do what you have to say next, ask questions, etc. Whatever you listen to, it touches you through your life-experiences. You compare what you hear with your autobiography whether it is right or wrong. And because of this you have to talk about the otherThey make an impression in their mind that what the next is saying is what they want to say. Do these sentences seem to be heard by some hearing? "Hey, I know how you are feeling. It was the same with me. "" It was the same with me too. "" I tell you what I did at that time. "Since you listen to others according to the experiences of your life. You answer in one of these four ways: Evaluating / evaluation: First you judge, agree or disagree after that. Probing / inquiry: You answer your questions according to your advice. Interpreting / explaining: You analyze the motives and behaviors of others according to your experience. Perhaps you are thinking that what is evil in relating to someone with your experience? It may be appropriate to do this in some situations, such as when someone tells you to tell you something based on your experiences, when you have a trust relationship between the two. But it is not always appropriate to do this. Habit 6: Synergize / Tail-matching: Understanding in simple words, "Two brains are better than one" Synergize means constructive support. This is team-work. It is open minded to find out the new diagnosis of old problems. But this yahoo just does not happen automatically. This is a process, and through the same process, people can use their experience and expertise. Together they alone can get a better result than they are. From Synergy, we find so many things together that rarely find when we search for them alone. This is the idea in which the whole is greater than the sum of the parts. One plus one equals three, or six, or sixty- or more When people start interacting with each other honestly, and are open to being influenced by each other, then they start getting new information. Differences among themselves increase the ability to invent new methods multiplied. Importance of conflicts is the core of synergy. Do you really value those who are psychologically, emotional, and psychological differences? Or do you want all the people to listen to you so that you can move forward easily? Many people understand unity as unity. Should see mutual differences as weakness, not as strength. Habit 7: Sharpen the Saw / Sharpen the ax A Sharpen the Saw means to keep your own property safe. It means designing a program for yourself that will renew your four areas of life in physical, social / emotional, mental, and spiritual. Below are examples of some such activities: physical / physical: good food, exercise, relax, social / emotional / social / emotional: social and meaningful relationship with others. Mental / mental: reading-writing, learning-learning. Spiritual / Spiritual: Spend time with nature, meditate, serve. As you - like you will improve yourself in every area, you will bring progress and change in your life. Sharpen the Saw keeps you fresh so that you can practice the remaining six habits well. Doing this increases your ability to face challenges. Without doing so your body becomes weak, the brain becomes insensitive, the emotions get cold, the nature becomes insensitive, and the person becomes selfish. And this is not a good picture, why? You feel good, it does not happen by itself. The purpose of living a balanced life is to remove the necessary time to renew yourself. It's all up to you. You can relax yourself and renew it. Or burn every one by doing excessive work. You can love yourself mentally and spiritually, or you can be unaware of your well-being. You can experience the vibrant energy inside you or by avoiding the loss of good health and exercise benefits. You can revive yourself and welcome a new day with peace and harmony. Or you can get up with sadness and see the day pass by. Just remember that every day gives you a new opportunity to renew yourself, gives opportunity, to recharge itself. Just need Desire (desire), Knowledge (knowledge) and Skills (skills).
Habit 1: Be Be proactive / proactive
Being proactive means being responsible for your life. You can not blame your parents or grandparents for everything. Proactive people understand that they are "response-able". They do not blame genetics, circumstance, or perception for their conduct. They know that they choose their own behavior. On the other hand, those who are reactive on the other hand are mostly affected by their physical environment. They blame external things for their behavior. If the weather is good, then they like it. And if not, it affects their attitude and performance, and they blame the weather. All external forces work like a stimulus, on which we react. Your biggest strength lies in the same excitement and the reaction you make on it - and that is the fact that freedom is that you can choose your own reaction on your own. One very important thing is that you can choose what you say. The language you use indicates how you see yourself. A proactive person uses proactive language - I can, I will, etc. A reactive person uses reactive language - I can not, if it happens, etc. Reactive people think that they are not responsible for what they say and do - they have no choice. They have no choice. They have no choice.
Instead of reacting or worrying on situations which can not be controlled at all or at least a little bit, proactive people put their time and energy in things that they can control. Whatever problems, challenges or opportunities we have before us, we can divide them into two areas:
Circle of Concern (area of concern)
Circle of Influence (Area of Influence )
Proactive people focus their efforts on the Circle of Influence. They work on things they can do about something like: health, children, workplace problems. Reactive people focus their efforts on the Circle of Concern: debt, terrorism, weather on the country. Knowing that what we spend in our energy, is a big step towards becoming proactive.
Habit 2: Begin with the End in Mind Start by keeping the end in mind
So what do you want to become a grown up? Perhaps this question may sound strange, but you think about it for a moment. Are you still the ones you wanted to be made, whose dream you saw, are you doing what you always wanted to do? Think honestly. Many times it happens that people see themselves winning such a win which is actually hollow- such a success, in exchange for which big things have to be sung. If your ladder is not on the right wall then whatever steps you take takes you to the wrong place.
Habit 2 is based on your imagination or imagination - that is your ability to show you things in your mind that you can not see with your eyes. It is based on the principle that everything is created twice. First mental creation, and second physical creation Just as a house is built after the blue-print is created, so is the creation of a physical creation only after having a mental creation. If you do not visualize yourself what you doIf you want to become and what you want to be, then you leave the decision on how your life will be and on other situations. Habit 2 is about how you recognize your character, and then can keep yourself happy and complete within your personal, moral and ethical guidelines. To begin with, keeping in mind the end, it means starting every day, work or project with a clear vision of what our direction and what destination should be, and then proactively take up the task to complete that work. The priceless idea on Imagination is the best way to get Habit 2 into practice, to make a Personal Mission Statement of your own. Its focus will be on what you want to be and what you want to do. This is your planning for success. It confirms who you are, puts your goals in focus, and brings your ideas to this world. Your Mission Statement makes you the leader of your life. You make your destiny yourself, and those dreams you have seen come true. Habit 3: Put First Things First Prioritize Primary Things To live a balanced life, you have to understand that you have everything in this life can not do. There is no need to engage in more work than yourself. Do not hesitate to say "no" when necessary, and then focus on your important priorities. Habit 1 says, "You are in charge. You are the creator ". Being proactive is your own choice. Habit 2 is about to visualize things in the first brain. Starting with the end in mind, it is related to vision. Habit 3 is about the second creation, i.e. physical creation. Habit 1 and Habit 2 have sex in this habit. And it happens every moment all the time. It deals with many questions related to Time Management. But this is not all that. Habit is also about 3 life management-your purpose, values, roles, and priorities. What are "Primary Things"? The primary things are those, which you personally consider the most valuable. If you prefer to prioritize primary tasks, you are putting your time, your energy, on the priorities set by you in Habit 2. Habit 4: Think Win-Win Always Think of Winning Think Win-Win Is not about, nor is it a short-cut. This is a code based on character that interacts and collaborates with other people. Most of us do our assessment based on comparison and competition from others. We see our success in the failure of others-that is, if I win, you lose, if you win then I lose. In this way life becomes a zero-sum game. As if there is only one bread, and if the second takes a bigger share, then I will get less, and I will try that others do not get much. We all play these games, but you think how much fun it is? Win-Win sees life as a co-operation, not like competition. Win-Win is a state of mind and heart that continually motivates everyone to think about the benefit of everyone. Win-Win means such agreements and solutions that are beneficial and satisfactory to everyone. All things are eaten in it, and they taste great. A person or organization who tries to solve problems with the Win-Win attitude, there are three main things in it: Integrity / Loyalty: Your values, Do not compromise with commitments and feelings Maturity / Maturity: Put your ideas and feelings in front of others and cherish the thoughts and feelings of others. Abundance Mentality / Mindset of Abundance: Be sure to believe in this. Not so much for the lot of people think in terms of either-or: either you're good or you desperately. Both Win-Win is required. It's like balance between courage and understanding. To win Win-Win, you will not only be sympathetic but also self-confident. You will not only be thoughtful and sensitive but also brave. To do this, balance is established in the concept and consideration, that is the real maturity, and is very important for Win-Win. Habit 5: Seek First to Understand, then understand the others, then explain your point of Communication Life The most important is the skill. You spend many years studying to read-write and speak. But what is the hearing? What training have you received, which teaches you to listen to others, so that you can understand the person in the right way? Maybe no one? Why? If you are like most people, maybe you too would like to explain your point of view first. And in doing so, you will completely ignore the other person, show that you are listening, but actually you just listen to words but they are completely missed by their true meaning. Good speaker? 17 Tips Why Think It Is? Because most people hear with the intention that they have to answer, do not understand. You listen to yourself inside and prepare to do what you have to say next, ask questions, etc. Whatever you listen to, it touches you through your life-experiences. You compare what you hear with your autobiography whether it is right or wrong. And because of this you have to talk about the otherThey make an impression in their mind that what the next is saying is what they want to say. Do these sentences seem to be heard by some hearing? "Hey, I know how you are feeling. It was the same with me. "" It was the same with me too. "" I tell you what I did at that time. "Since you listen to others according to the experiences of your life. You answer in one of these four ways: Evaluating / evaluation: First you judge, agree or disagree after that. Probing / inquiry: You answer your questions according to your advice. Interpreting / explaining: You analyze the motives and behaviors of others according to your experience. Perhaps you are thinking that what is evil in relating to someone with your experience? It may be appropriate to do this in some situations, such as when someone tells you to tell you something based on your experiences, when you have a trust relationship between the two. But it is not always appropriate to do this. Habit 6: Synergize / Tail-matching: Understanding in simple words, "Two brains are better than one" Synergize means constructive support. This is team-work. It is open minded to find out the new diagnosis of old problems. But this yahoo just does not happen automatically. This is a process, and through the same process, people can use their experience and expertise. Together they alone can get a better result than they are. From Synergy, we find so many things together that rarely find when we search for them alone. This is the idea in which the whole is greater than the sum of the parts. One plus one equals three, or six, or sixty- or more When people start interacting with each other honestly, and are open to being influenced by each other, then they start getting new information. Differences among themselves increase the ability to invent new methods multiplied. Importance of conflicts is the core of synergy. Do you really value those who are psychologically, emotional, and psychological differences? Or do you want all the people to listen to you so that you can move forward easily? Many people understand unity as unity. Should see mutual differences as weakness, not as strength. Habit 7: Sharpen the Saw / Sharpen the ax A Sharpen the Saw means to keep your own property safe. It means designing a program for yourself that will renew your four areas of life in physical, social / emotional, mental, and spiritual. Below are examples of some such activities: physical / physical: good food, exercise, relax, social / emotional / social / emotional: social and meaningful relationship with others. Mental / mental: reading-writing, learning-learning. Spiritual / Spiritual: Spend time with nature, meditate, serve. As you - like you will improve yourself in every area, you will bring progress and change in your life. Sharpen the Saw keeps you fresh so that you can practice the remaining six habits well. Doing this increases your ability to face challenges. Without doing so your body becomes weak, the brain becomes insensitive, the emotions get cold, the nature becomes insensitive, and the person becomes selfish. And this is not a good picture, why? You feel good, it does not happen by itself. The purpose of living a balanced life is to remove the necessary time to renew yourself. It's all up to you. You can relax yourself and renew it. Or burn every one by doing excessive work. You can love yourself mentally and spiritually, or you can be unaware of your well-being. You can experience the vibrant energy inside you or by avoiding the loss of good health and exercise benefits. You can revive yourself and welcome a new day with peace and harmony. Or you can get up with sadness and see the day pass by. Just remember that every day gives you a new opportunity to renew yourself, gives opportunity, to recharge itself. Just need Desire (desire), Knowledge (knowledge) and Skills (skills).
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