Incomplete is important for living ...

On hearing the incomplete word, there is a negative thought in mind. Because this word itself shows a lack of life in itself. But think that if this little loss is not there in life then life will not be reduced to life?

If you pay attention, then the motivation inspired by the man to work is to reduce it. Any steps, we take it only in the direction of filling this emptiness. Psychologists say that there are some innate powers within a man who inspires him to go away from any negative emotion and choose the best option from the available options. Anything that brings an imbalance in life, the man tries to take him towards the balance.



If there is no shortage, there will be no need, no attraction will be needed, and if there is no attraction then there will be no goal. If hunger does not look then there is no question of going to eat. Therefore it is not right to see any defect in your life negatively. The fact is that this deficiency or incompleteness acts as a motivator for us.

The drawbacks are in everyone's life, only his appearance and level are different. And every work of this world has been done to fulfill the same shortcoming and will continue to be done. Regardless of the behavior, daily work, office visits, love relationships or any other new relationship is done in the direction of filling the emptiness of life. Yes, it may be certain that some people continue to work for their betterment even after the reduction is complete.

Take any event, freedom fight, any revolution, small crime, big crime or altruism, every work is to remove some incomplete. From many research, it has been proved that what kind of clothes the person wears, how he reads the book, what kind of program he likes to see, and what is connected to the institution, all of which are to remove the shortcomings of his life. Is related to.

The great psychologist Maslow (Maslow) has said that the person's life revolves around five types of needs.



Second security

Third relation or love,

Fourth Spirit-of Honor



And the fifth self-actualization in which a person uses his abilities fully.

Not necessarily, we can reach all the stages mentioned in Maslow's Hierarchy of needs in our life and overcome every shortcoming, but we must make efforts.

Many incidents happen in such a manner where people have changed the shortcomings of their lives in their power, and due to which the whole world knows them, in which the name of Albert Einstein and Abraham Lincoln comes in the top.

Albert Einstein was a victim of learning disability since birth, he could not speak for four years and he did not have to study for nine years. In the first attempt of College Entrance, they also failed. But even then what they did was unmatched.

Abraham Lincoln had many problems related to health in his life. He had lost many times in his life and even once his nervous break-down was done, he still became the 16th President of the United States at the age of 52.

The truth is that if the person wishes, the incompetence of his life can only be the biggest source of his inspiration.

The incompleteness that inspires us to do something in life, how can it be negative?

"Just think! If this little incompleteness is not in our life then how much life will be incomplete !!!! "

10 Practical Ways to Increase Self-Confidence

No one can deny that self-confidence is a very important quality to achieve success in life. You will see this quality in every person who has reached some point in life, whether it is a film star, a cricketer, a person in your neighborhood, or a teacher who teaches you. Confidence is one of the qualities that happens in everyone, someone in less then someone in more But it is necessary to increase your present level of confidence to a new and improved level.


1) Improve Dressing sense:
How are you dress-up, its effect depends on your confidence. Let me tell that here I am talking about common people like myself, great men like Swami Vivekanand and Mahatma Gandhi have nothing to do with this, and if you come into this category then you too :).


I myself felt like this, when I am in my best attire, then my confidence increases automatically, that is why I am very well prepared whenever I have a presentation or interview. Actually looking good makes you confident to face people, and unlike them, you are very conscious about being poorly dressed.

I had read a line somewhere-

Do as much as you spend on clothes, but buy half of the clothes you buy.

You can also adopt it.

2) Do those who are confident:
People around you will surely see who you think will feel confident that this person is very confident. Look at such people carefully and include some of their activities in your life. For example:



Sit on front seat.
Give Questions / Answers in Class, Seminars, and Other Opportunities
Pay attention to your walking and seating
Do not speak in a voice slaked
Eye contact, do not stare at sight.
3) Make better than most people in one thing:
Not everyone can become an expert in every field, but according to his interest, he can choose one or two areas in which he can become better than others. While I was in school, many students were good at studying me and other things, but I was the best in class in Geometry (thanks to Papa :)), and for this reason I was very confident. And today I feel confident by making AKC one of the world's most read Hindi blogs. If you master a thing, you will make it in-general confidence. You just have to pick something according to your interest and it will have to be the best in your circle, your circle depends on you, it can be your school, college, your colony or your city.

You can choose any field, it can be an art, music, dance, etc. There can be a game, a subject or something in which your expertise can separate you from the crowd and make your special place. . It is not so difficult, you will already be better than many in some or the other, just be a little harder and become an expert in it, it will take a little while, but when you do this, everyone will respect you and you will be much more feel confident

And the person who becomes special in any field, is not worried about having less knowledge in other areas, think only whether Sachin Tendulkar would be disturbed by the fact that he did not study much ... never!

4) Remember your achievements:
Your past achievements will help you feel confident. These small-scale any achievements can be. For example: You have ever come first in class, have done school top in any subject, have done any singles in singing completion or sports, have achieved a big target, are employees of the month. Anything that makes you feel good

You can write these achievements in dairy, and you can see them, especially if you want to boost your confidence. The best way to do this is to make some images related to these achievements in your mind and add them to a small movie and keep playing in this mind from time to time. Definitely this will help boost your confidence.

5) Visualize that you are confident:
Your strong thinking goes astray, so think of yourself as a confident person every day. Anyone can imagine, as if you are standing at some stage giving a speech to thousands of people, or giving a fantastic presentation in any seminar hall, and everyone is impressed with you, complimenting you everywhere It is happening and people greet you by applause. Albert Einstein has also called imagination more powerful than knowledge; And you can do a great job by using this power.

6) Do not be afraid to make mistakes:
Do you know any person who has never made a mistake? Do not know, because it is a man's nature to make mistakes, and I would say that even birth right also Use this right to you. Making a mistake is not wrong, it is wrong to repeat it. Unless you repeat the same mistake repeatedly, actually you do not make mistakes, youSo make an effort and learn something from experience that can happen from this. Many times in our lives, we have everything that should be done to do any work, but still fear of failure, we can confidently do that work. Can not do it. Do not be scared of the fear of mistakes, they should be afraid that they do not even have the courage to try because of this fear !! Take a look at the history of the successful people, and see that many failures will be hidden in the chaos of their success .Michel Jordan, who is considered to be the best basketball player of the world ever; He also says that - I have failed many times in my life and that is why I am successful. You do not hesitate to do anything, whether it is standing or questioning, or if you have to keep talking to many people, Your little guts can increase your confidence several times. There is really a victory ahead of fear! 7) Do not abusive to learn English for low confidence: English is dominated by our country. I also consider the knowledge of English as necessary, but only because of its knowledge you can read many good books, blogs, etc, you can see more than one program, movies, etc. But is knowledge of this language necessary to be confident? No . Knowing English can make you even more confident, but it is not necessary to be confident. The purpose of any language is to express their thoughts in words, and if you can do the same work in any other language, then you do not have the obligation to know English. I am from Gorakhpur, I am a MP from there, Yogi Aditya Nath. I have never heard of speaking in English, but the confidence of the leader of the leader has not been less than the same. Likewise, like Mayawati and Mulayam Singh, the confidence of the leaders has been frozen, but they always use the Hindi language. In some places, such as the knowledge of English in the job-interview, it may be necessary for your selection, But not for confidence, you can become the most confident person in the world without even going to English .Realated Read: How to Learn English 12 Ideas8) Do something that reduces your confidence: Industry do not feel confident in a particular reason. As some people have stage-fear in them, then no one gets nervous in front of opposite sex. If you are also facing such a challenge then beat it The best way to beat and beat is to do the activity that nervous you so many times that it will become your strength. Be sure to know that this effort may be taken by some people lightly, and maybe even jokes, but when you are constantly engaged in your efforts, then those people will stand up for you and clap your hands. One line of Gandhiji always told me a lot "He will not pay attention to you first, then he will laugh at you, then he will fight with you, and then you will win." Then you also let him ignore them, let's laugh, fight But in the end you go to win. Because you are here to win, not to lose. 9) Make special preparations on special occasions: Self-belief is essential for success, and preparation for self-confidence - Arthur Ashe Whenever you have a chance to prove yourself in front of you If so, take full advantage of it. For example: You are participating in any debate, quiz, dancing or singing competition, doing any exam or exam, or you are presenting a presentation, or organizing a program. For every such occasion, join the jeejan and just make sure that you did not make any shortcomings in preparation, no matter what the result, no one can lift finger at you for your preparation. Preparation and self-confidence are directly proportional. The better preparedness will be as good self-confidence. And when you succeed because of this preparation, this victory will become a chapter in the success story of your life which you can read repeatedly and boost your confidence. 

5 things that you should not do and why?

Friends, knowingly we do many things which are not right for our personal development. Well, the list of these things can be very long, but I am sharing with you just five things that I follow. You may already practice some of these things, but if you do some add-on from here, then surely they will make your life better. So, let's see those 5 things:


1) Enjoying the evil of the other
We have been listening to this since childhood that we should not do the evil of the third person in front of others, but one more thing that I think is important is that if someone is doing evil of someone else then we should not take interest in it and he should not enjoy If you show interest in it, then you also attract negativity somewhere. It would be better if you stayed away from such people, but if you are compulsive to stay together, then you become deaf and dumb on such topics, the front will itself calm down.


For example if someone is joking about someone and you do not laugh at that then maybe he will not do so next time in front of you. Understand this also that those who make fun of others in front of you, they will also make fun of you in front of others. Therefore it is okay to discourage such people.

2) Compare the inside of the other
Say it human defect or the truth on some other is that the reason for many miseries is the happiness of others that we do not have our own grief. You try to rise above it, so keep in mind that only one person knows the reality, we look at the external form of the people, and compare it with the real meaning of it. So we think that the front is more than happy to us, but the reality is that such comparison does not make any sense. You just have to improve yourself and do not have to compare the meaningless.

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3) To depend on others for any work
I have seen many times that people can not fulfill their important work just because they depend on someone else. Do not depend on any particular person. Your goal; The task must be completed within the time limit, now if your best friend is not able to help you immediately then you can take help of someone else, or you can do the same even if possible.

Doing this will increase your confidence, those people who are self-reliant in doing small things, even after passing bigger challenges too, then take this thing in your habit: it is necessary that the work is done. Not only is the help of a person special.



4) Feeling regret over what has passed
If you have something happened in the past that hurts you, then once you regret it ... do it twice .... Do not do it for the third time. Take what you can learn from that incident and look forward. People who cry their cry often and in front of others, instead of showing sympathy, they begin to cut off.

Everyone has their own problems and no one likes people who make life sad rather than happy. And if you do this then you are the loss of yourself more than anyone else. You are trapped in past, and you do not live this moment and prepare yourself for the future.

5) Focusing on those who do not want to
The thing that we focus on in the entire universe increases surprisingly. Therefore, focus on what you want to see happen, talk about it and not the things that you do not want.

For example: If you want to increase your income, talk about rising inflation and expenses, but talk about new opportunities and income generating ideas.

This thing has been explained in detail in this post: Do not think what they want is not what they want! Please read it.

Friends, I hope that by paying attention to these small things, you will be able to grow faster on the path of Self Improvement and make your life happy.

All the best. 🙂

If you want to become a millionaire then quit the job!

Let's first exercise a little. Think of your list of five millionths of your city ... .. please do not miss this step, please be sure!

How to become rich

Now tell me is there anybody who has a job in this list? I am not in my list, I would like to tell you the names which came in my mind. I am a resident of Gorakhpur, U.P. and these people are of the same:




Annal with consciousness spices,
 Dr. Agrawal, who has his own hospital
Mr. Jalan-Saria Wala
One of my colony's uncle who goes to Engineering College, and
Baranwal Uncle, from whom we buy jewellery.
One thing in all of these is common. People work here but they do not employ anybody here. These are all entrepreneurs, entrepreneurs, businessmen are not but employees.

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I also asked this to some friends, even in their list there was no job name. Now this is another thing that if you insist on meditation then some people will find it, but most of them have either become white or the whole crop will be cleaned. 🙂 If the job is to make Crorepati hair white then the job is not bad. Three-four promotions and in 15- 20 years you will become Crorepati ... but if you become such a child, it will not be for you ... and fun is for you. Why? And if you have to become Crorepati yourself then you have to become an entrepreneur.

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One thing to say here is that some people do not see those who wish to make more money with such respect, but I think that by looking at this inflation, there may have been a change in their thinking ... .taking more earning is to make a big difference. Is changing from; It is a good thing to see my desire to earn more money, provided it does not work wrong to earn it. And perhaps this article should also be read by the same people who have such a desire, or else they would have gone on to some other topic after reading the title of the article. Let's now come to the main issue:

How to quit a job?
The question is absolutely fine. But there is a bigger question than this: "What will you do if you quit the job?" If this second question is in your mind, then I have no answer. Because these are the sounds from you that you want to do. And if this is not coming then you are not ready for such a step right now ... but it is confirmed that if you want you can prepare yourself over time.



But if you are one of those who have a dream, whatever big, some great, something you want to do then you have to think about the question first. Because if you do not think right now then it may be even more difficult for you to think in the future:

Your responsibilities will increase, that means your ability to take risk will be reduced.
Maybe your salary increases and you understand yourself. That "the floating brother is coming to the money ... what else is needed."
Some people might think that lecture is easy but it is very difficult to do. The truth is true, but it is also true that it is difficult to do but not impossible.

If Dheerubhai Ambani had not left the job of petrol pump, would there be a company like Reliance today? If Narayan Murthy had not left his job of Patni Computers then would there be any existence of Infosys today? Amitabh Bachchan also worked first in Shaw Wallace and later in a shipping firm named Bird & Co, if he had not even heard the voice of his heart, then where did India get such a big hero?

These are very big examples which we all know but be sure to know that there are thousands of successful stories on which people have turned their thinking into reality ... leaving the streets of the village to make the city's tallest buildings themselves . He has made himself a millionaire and many others have made Lakhpati.

But the first question that was still ours was, "How to quit a job?" He is the same. It is not a matter of saying that this is a very big step, and can not be taken anywhere. He can take this revolutionary step only, who has a strong desire to do something in his mind and he is too passionate to execute his plan. Those who are really passionate about doing something, they do not think much of the things around and they just seem to be in their efforts.

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But most of us (including me) want to do something, but we have a fear that if we fail then whatever will happen will also go away. This fear is also reasonable. That's why I think it can be good to find a middle path, like starting a side-business. This is an old self-destruct method, which you may have seen around you. After office timings and on holiday, people do their side-business and when they come on the business track slowly, they quit their jobs and spend the whole time in business. I would like to give a small example that I had read in Rashmi Bansal ji's "Connect the Dots" book.

N. Mahadevan wanted to become a Hotelier but fortune had made him a Professor, but he challenged this decision of fate and left his professor's job at Madras University and he multi-million dollar Food Empire. After reading from 9 am to 4:30 in the evening, they got another job to understand the work, they started doing duty in a hotel everyday from 6 pm to 12 pm. When the work was realized and some money was gathered, he started a Chinese restaurant of himself. Today his restaurants are in 16 countries, with a total of 3000 employees working. He himself has not done an MBA, but IIM-Ahmedabad has kept pass-outs closed for dealing with business. Related: What is not necessary to be an entrepreneur? My plan: You may know that I am also working. I am also, and I have chosen a path for myself, which I would like to tell you, maybe for you it came out some ideas. My idea is, of course, the idea of ​​mine and my wife Padmaja. She used to do the job before marriage, but we decided that it is a stupid job to marry both husband and wife after marriage. Because by doing so we can add 10-20 thousand rupees extra to our income every month but can not become rich. That's why she left the job.Now there was something to do next. Since her mind, she was more concerned with beauty related things, so we decided that we would open a very standard beauty parlor, and gradually its branches would be nearby. Open in other cities. He will take care of the interior of the parlor and I will work for promotional activities and expansion. The point of happiness is that we have started to execute this plan. The first step was to understand this business closely, so for now Padmaja is doing an official certification course related to Beauty from VLCC and part -time one By practicing in a parlour of identity-making, we are improving our skills. After that some things will have to be done and our plan will be implemented. Now we do not know if we will get success or not ... but if we do not even try, then it will have to accept defeat without playing it without a match. And we have to win. Some of my friends have done the same thing, my friend Vaibhav Srivastava has taken the franchisee of a tuition center while doing the job and engaged in making him profitable with the help of some partners. Another friend of mine, Rahul Sahay, has also worked together in Reliance Life Insurance, a few friends have joined together to create a Vocational Training Center, NIPS and a magnificent restaurant. Many people have started to realize their dream with a lot of ideas. We are doing this, and we are doing this, it is a special thing in humans, we can fulfill those dreams we can do. In the end, I would say that taking no risk is the biggest risk of life ... and this you can not afford So your heart Voice and enter realizing your dreams. All the best!

Three stories - which can change your life!

Whenever the name of the world's most influential entrepreneurs is taken, then there should be no other name in it, a name definitely comes. And that name is STEVE JOBS (Steve Jobs). APPLE Company's co-founder does not know this world as the world's only one successful entrepreneur, inventor and businessman, but is also counted among world's leading motivators and speakers.

 So let's read -

 Today, I feel proud to be in the convocation of one of the world's most famous universities. Let me tell you the truth; I have never passed a college; And for the first time today I have reached so close to a college graduation ceremony. Today I would like to tell you three stories of my life ... nothing more than just three stories.



My first story is about connecting dots. Within 6 months of enrolling in Reed College, I left the studies, but I went there somehow till 18 months after that. So the question arises why did I leave the college? Actually, it started before my birth.

 My biological mother * was a young, unmarried graduate student, and she wanted to give me somebody else for adoption. But they had a good wish that any college graduate would adopt me. Everything was absolutely set and I was about to be adopted by a lawyer and his wife that suddenly the couple changed their mind and decided that they needed a girl. That's why, after midnight, my parents, who were then in the waiting list, were called upon to say, "We have a baby-boy, would you like to adopt him?" And he hastened yes.

Later my biological mother came to know that my mother is not a college pass and her father is not even near High School. Therefore, he refused to sign the Adoption Papers; But after a few months, after my assurance to send my college to my parents, she agreed. So that my life started like this and after seventeen years I went to college ... .Unfortunately I chose the college expensive as expensive as Stanford. All my deposits of my working-class parents started visiting my studies.

After 6 months I did not see any value in this study. I did not have any idea what I wanted to do in my life, and how college would help me in this. And from the top I was spending my parents' earnings throughout my life. So I decided to drop-out college ... and thought that would be good. At that time all this was quite scary for me, but when I look back, I think it was the best decision of my life.

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As soon as I left college, the obligation to do the required classes was over. And I started to quietly class only my interest. All this was not so easy. I had no room to stay, so I had to sleep on the floor in the friends room. I used to eat food from the money returned from returning the coke bottle .... I used to walk every Sunday 7 miles to Hare Krishna temple, so that I can eat a meal for at least a week in the morning. It seemed to me quite well.

Whatever I did in my life because of my curiosity and intuition, it proved to be priceless to me later. Let me give an example. At that time Reed College was probably the best place in the world where Calligraphy * was taught. Every single poster in the entire campus, every single label would have had a beautifully calligraph from the lips.

Since I had been drop-out from college so there was no need to do normal classes. I decided that I would classigraphy and I would learn it well. I learned about serif and sans-serif type-faces; Learn also how to separate the space between different letter-combinations and what makes a good typography good. It was beautiful, it was so artistic that it could not be captured by science, and I liked it very much.

At that time there was little hope that I would use these things in my life. But when we were making the first Macintosh computer after ten years, I designed it in a Mac. And Mac became the world's first computer with beautiful typography. If I had not dropped out of college then I would never have MacThere are no ultiple-typefaces or proportionally spaced fonts, and because Windows has copied a Mac, it probably does not happen in any personal computer. If I had never done drop-out, then I would never have been able to do classes of calligraphy and then maybe the fonts that are in the personal computers would not have happened. Of course, when I was in college, Connecting dots was impossible; But after ten years, when I look back, everything looks very clearly. You can never pair dots by peeping into the future. You can only connect dots by looking at the past; So you have to believe that whatever is happening now, it will go ahead and connect somehow to your future. You have to trust in some thing - in your own guts, in your own destiny, your life or in your karma ... some thing I must believe ... because in this thing believing that dots will be going forward You will have the courage to listen to your heart ... even when you are walking on a different path ... and that will make the difference My second story is about love and loss. I got what I wanted soon. Woz and I was 20 years old when I started Apple Shirau from my parents' garage. We worked very hard and in 10 years Apple grew from two people to a company of $ 2 billion and 4000 people. We just finished our best creation Macintosh a year ago, I was thirty and I was fired from the company. Young Steve Jobs How can you be a fire from your created company? Well, as the company grew, we hired a talented man, whom I thought he would run company with me, first one year all went well .... But then there was a difference between the two of the company's future vision. The talk reached Board of Directors, and they supported him, so at thirty, I was fired ... publicly removed. The focus of my whole adult life was now over, and it was totally devastating. I did not really understand what I should do for the next few months. I realized that by accepting all this so easily, I have downgraded the entrepreneurs of my first generation. I met David Packard * and Bob Noyce * and apologized if everything happened to them. I had a huge public failure, once I thought about leaving the valley *. But gradually I realized that I am passionate about the work I am doing. Because of what happened in Apple, there is no shortage of my passion .... I have been rejected, but I still love my work. So I tried to start over again I did not think so, but now I think the good thing could not have been with me by firing from Apple. Now the burden of being successful has changed in the lightness of being a beginner; I was feeling myself feeling very free once again ... due to this freedom I went into the most creative period of my life. In the next five years I had a company NeXT and another company Pixar started, and during this time I met a very amazing lady, who later became my wife. Pixar created the world's first computer animated movie, "Toy Story", and is currently the most successful animation studio in the world. Apple bought NeXT by taking an unexpected step and I went back to Apple. Apple today uses technology developed by NeXT .... Now Lorene and I have a beautiful family. I can say with absolute surety that if I had not been removed from Apple, then all this would not happen to me. This was a bitter medicine ... but perhaps the patient needed it. Sometimes life stops you like this. Do not lose your faith. I can say with conviction that I just went ahead because I loved my work ... I love my work. You have to know what you really like to do, as much as it is necessary to find your love It is important to find work that you truly enjoy, your work will be a major part of your life, and the only way to be truly-satisfied is to do what you really think is a big task. To do bigger work. Education is the only way that you will to do that you enjoy. If you have not got that work yet, do not wait; Keep searching for it. As everything is connected to the heart, you will know when you get it ... and as it happens in a good relationship, it will be better with time .... Keep looking for it ... do not wait.My The third story is about death. When I was 17, I read a quote, which was like this, "If you live every day as if it is the last day of your life, then you will be proved right on some day." It has my mind An impression has been made, and since then ... For the past 33 years, I have risen up in the mirror every morning and have asked a question from myself, if this was the last day of my life, would I do what I do today? Am? And whenever for several consecutive days Wab "is not", I understand the need for some change. Remember that I will die very soon, it is most helpful for me to take major decisions of my life, because when one

Florence Chadwick and 3 Mantras of Success

We all want something in life. They also work hard to get it. But sometimes, we face challenges that prevent us from moving forward.

Gradually we begin to feel that the difficulties are stronger than we are, we will not be able to beat them. We feel that we will not be able to achieve what we are working hard to get, and we all agree.


This story of today is for those who are facing difficult situations right now. And you are feeling weak.

Look, life can be tough, problems can drop you down, but if you stay up till the end, then you will definitely win.

Florence Chadwick and 3 Mantras of Success

Florence Chadwick was 34 years old, from Catalina Island to the coastline of California; Who called the Catalina channel, decided to swim 21 miles to cross. This was the first attempt by any woman to cross the Catalina Channel.

July 4, 1952
With the determination of winning the Chadwick wearing the swimsuit, he entered the water and began to swim. The weather was very challenging. The ocean was cold ice, and the fog was so thick that it was very difficult to see the assistant team coming behind the boat. Both the tide and the weather were against him.

5 hours had passed, but the name of fog was not taking the name. Her mother sitting in the boat with the support team was encouraging her to move forward. After swimming for 15 hours in a row, he started having doubts about his ability to float. He told his mother that he does not think he can make this record.



Because of the fog, he was unable to see the beach, so he did not have an idea of ​​how far he was from his destination. And unfortunately, after 16 hours of hard swimming, he accepted defeat and with great disappointment, he asked his assistant team to take him out of the water. But when he reached the shore, he realized that he was less than a mile from the shore.

Later, he told a reporter, "Look, I do not want to make excuses, but if I could see the land, I would have definitely made a record."



The fog made him unable to see his goal and felt that he would not be able to reach. He definitely reached the coast, if he would stay in the water for a while. After two months of this unsuccessful attempt, he tried again. And, even though the mist was too dense this time, but this time it was a mental image of the coastline in his mind when he was pushing himself. And not only did he succeed but rather -

Catalina became the world's first woman to cross the channel.

This story teaches us three lessons of success-



"There are many people who have failed in life who are not aware of how close they were to success when they gave up."

When we are facing difficult challenges, many times we get very close to our destination. But still we accept defeat, because for this reason we think we can not get the floor.



Remember this, there is a beautiful edge in front of the mist and you are very close to it. If you continue to swim in between that dense haze problems ... you will continue to face them, then you will definitely reach the shore ... you will win.

The defeat can be changed to victory
Many people can not do many things just because they were unsuccessful when they were trying to do it for the first time. If Florence Chadwick even assumed his first failure, then he could never cross the Catalina Channel.

Like them, we should be quick to change the despair of defeat in the vigor of victory.



If you read the biography of any successful person, you will find two things in common:

First, every successful person has ever faced failure in his life.
And secondly, every successful person has tried again after facing defeat.
Chadwick did the same.

But there are many people in this world, who make every effort to get their destination. Even after they did not find their destination, they would give up.

Look, there is nothing bad in accepting defeat, but only then, until you quit trying again.

Whenever we set big goals, temporary losses and obstacles are mandatory. Just because you are once unsuccessful does not mean that you will always be unsuccessful.

Do not try to try anytime, because if you keep on moving forward you will never get a chance to succeed. But if you give up trying, then there is a guarantee that you will be unsuccessful for ever.

Most precious gift

Ramesh works in a private company The expenses were very much and he was often upset about the shortage of money.



One day when he returned from work, he noticed that a large box was placed on the cupboard by wrapping the gift.


"Hey, this gift is kept for whom ... what is the need to give such a big gift to anyone?" Ramesh said in a loud voice.

"Papa, these gifts I have made!" Ramesh's 4-year-old daughter, Gudiya, said in a spinning voice.

Ramesh also became angry and said, "Since today, without asking me, you will not give any gifts to anyone ... let's run away from here."

Hearing the scolding of Ramesh, the doll ran from the room crying.



The next day when Ramesh was about to leave for the office, that was when he looked at that gift, he had written on it-

I Love You Papa

Now Ramesh felt embarrassed on his behavior.

She immediately opened the box to see what the doll has given her. But this box was empty.

Now Ramesh is once again full of anger.

"Listen doll ... come here ... what a joke it is! Do not you know that whenever we give gift to someone, then there should be something inside, do anyone give an empty box in the gift?

The tiny tears in the eyes of the little doll came and she cried and cried-

Papa, these are not quite empty. I have inserted a slap in it. These pictures are for you, Papa.

Now Papa's eyes were tears. He took his daughter in Bhao and apologized to him. Once again, both father and daughter started dancing in the ocean of love.

Friends, love is the greatest gift of this life. No cost, no cost, yet it is the most precious. But we are so entangled in human beings materialistic life that they do not pay attention to the importance of love, affection, vatselya. Let us take time out for our loved ones by learning from this story, love them and give them this most precious gift too.

Thanks on the importance of love