Friday 23 November 2018

लड़किया कैसे पटायें : हमारी युक्तियाँ और चालें







हो सकता है कि आप अपनी पलकें बल्लेबाजी करें, आप अपने बालों के साथ खेलते हैं, या जब आप प्यारे लड़के के साथ होते हैं तो आप झटके से डूबते हैं। खैर, कोई फर्क नहीं पड़ता कि आपकी फ्लर्टिंग शैली क्या है, हमारे पास शीर्ष फ़्लर्टिंग युक्तियां हैं ताकि आप अंततः उस व्यक्ति के साथ अपने मनोविज्ञान से प्यारा बातचीत शुरू कर सकें।

कमरे में आँखें बंद करो

यदि आप किसी पार्टी में किसी लड़के से बात करना चाहते हैं, तो आपको पहुंचने योग्य होना चाहिए। इसका मतलब है कि पूरी रात अपनी गर्लफ्रेंड्स की भीड़ में खड़े नहीं रहें, और सुनिश्चित करें कि आप उस आदमी को देखें ताकि वह जानता हो कि आप रुचि रखते हैं।

डेटिंग कोच क्रिस्टीन हार्ट कहते हैं, "कॉलेज के लोगों से मुझे मिली मुख्य शिकायत यह है कि महिलाएं सभी कपड़े पहने जाते हैं और फिर वे घर पर अपनी मुस्कान और मजेदार रवैया छोड़ देते हैं।" "आंखों के संपर्क से शुरू करें, फिर एक सूक्ष्म मुस्कुराहट के साथ आंखों से संपर्क करें, [और] बस बस नमस्ते कहें।" बातचीत शुरू करने के बाद, हार्ट ने उस आदमी को तारीफ करने का सुझाव दिया कि वह उसे अधिक आराम से महसूस करे और वार्तालाप के तनाव को कम करे।

यदि आप आंखों के संपर्क करते समय अतिरिक्त flirty होना चाहते हैं, तो अपने दिमाग को बल्लेबाजी करें, मानव व्यवहार और रिश्ते विशेषज्ञ डॉ। पैट्रिक वानिस का सुझाव है। इससे पहले कि आप बात करना शुरू करें, आप पहले ही फ्लर्टिंग कर लेंगे।

"3 सेकंड मुस्कान" नियम का प्रयोग करें

अमेरिका के डेटिंग कोच के नाम से जाना जाने वाला पट्टी फीनस्टीन, इस कदम को "एक, दो, तीन मुस्कुराहट" कहता है। वह सुझाव देती है कि वह अपने लड़के को तीन सेकंड के लिए देखकर, एक सेक्सी मुस्कान चमकती है, और फिर दूर दिखती है।

यहां तक ​​कि एक चमकदार दिखने के लिए, डॉ वानिस ने आंखों के संपर्क को बनाए रखने के दौरान अपने होंठों को मारने का सुझाव दिया है। आप निश्चित रूप से उसे और अधिक चाहते हैं छोड़ देंगे।

अपनी उंगली के चारों ओर अपने बालों को घुमाओ

यह पुस्तक में सबसे पुरानी चाल की तरह लग सकता है, लेकिन फीनस्टीन और डॉ। वानिस दोनों इसके द्वारा कसम खाता है। यह एक क्लासिक फ्लश चाल है और निश्चित रूप से उस व्यक्ति को बताएगा कि आप उससे रूचि रखते हैं।

बातचीत के दौरान अपनी बांह को छूएं

इस कदम को अत्यधिक अतिरंजित और ओवरडोन करना आसान है, लेकिन अगर आप वार्तालाप के दौरान अपने लड़के की बांह को आसानी से छूते हैं, तो यह एक लंबा सफर तय करेगा। डायलेक्टिकल व्यवहार चिकित्सा में माहिर एक मनोचिकित्सक मैरी वाल्डन कहते हैं, "खेलना और हल्का सुझाव देने वाला भी उचित हो सकता है, यदि आपकी पूर्व प्रगति अच्छी तरह से प्राप्त हुई है।"

आपका लड़का आपके साथ अधिक शारीरिक संपर्क में रहना चाहता है और फ्लैश वार्तालाप जारी रखना चाहता है-बस यह सुनिश्चित कर लें कि आप बहुत शारीरिक रूप से सुझाव नहीं दे रहे हैं, या आप उस आदमी को फिक्र कर सकते हैं। वाल्डन कहते हैं, "फ्लर्टिंग की कुंजी कम है।"

उसे एक flirty भेजें (लेकिन बहुत सेक्सी नहीं!) पाठ

यूएनसी के एक वरिष्ठ अधिकारी एलिसिया * कहते हैं, "हमारी दूसरी तारीख के बाद, मैंने एक आदमी को मुझे छोड़ने के ठीक बाद एक स्माइली चेहरा लिखा।" "यह बहुत हताश होने के बिना flirty था, और यह उसे बताया कि मैं उसके साथ एक अच्छा समय था।"

बहुत सारे ग्रंथ या फेसबुक संदेश न भेजें, हालांकि-आप प्यारे लगने लगते हैं, चिपचिपा नहीं। और, ज़ाहिर है, sexting से दूर रहो। वाल्डन का कहना है, "नग्न तस्वीरों को पाठ करना, बेहद उत्तेजक और यौन स्पष्ट ग्रंथ या ईमेल वास्तव में एक लड़की को परेशानी में डाल सकते हैं।" "डिजिटल छवियां वितरित करने के लिए अविश्वसनीय रूप से आसान हैं और दिल की धड़कन में वायरल जा सकती हैं।"

क्लास असाइनमेंट के साथ आपकी मदद करने के लिए उससे पूछें

आपको कभी भी कम स्मार्ट होने का नाटक करना चाहिए, लेकिन यदि आप जिस लड़के के बाद हैं, वह आपकी कक्षाओं में से एक है, तो आपके पास उससे बात करने का स्वचालित बहाना है। यदि आप उसे कक्षा के दौरान फेसबुक या Google चैट पर देखते हैं, तो उसे एक प्यारा, त्वरित संदेश भेजें जिससे वह अधिक ध्यान दे। फिर, वर्ग के पूछने के बाद वार्तालाप शुरू करें यदि वह मध्यस्थ के लिए तैयार है। आप कॉफी शॉप में एक साथ अध्ययन करने का भी सुझाव दे सकते हैं। आप काम कर रहे होंगे और अपने लड़के के साथ छेड़छाड़ करेंगे।



अब जब आपके पास हमारी कोशिश की गई और सच्ची चाल है, कोलेजिएट्स, हम आपसे सुनना चाहते हैं। आपके अनुभव में क्या फ़्लर्टिंग टिप्स काम कर चुके हैं? चलो टिप्पड़ियों के अनुभाग से पता करते हैं।

allrounder: Story of two stones that will motivate you for suc...

allrounder: Story of two stones that will motivate you for suc...:   Story of two stones that will motivate you for success ......... The river reached the lowland after a long and long trip to the mo...

allrounder: Story of two stones that will motivate you for suc...

allrounder: Story of two stones that will motivate you for suc...:   Story of two stones that will motivate you for success ......... The river reached the lowland after a long and long trip to the mo...

Story of two stones that will motivate you for success ..........

 Story of two stones that will motivate you for success .........

The river reached the lowland after a long and long trip to the mountains. On both sides of it was a lot of spherical, elliptical and innumerable stones of no fixed size. The introduction between each of these two stones began to grow. Both of them started talking to each other and listening to their thoughts.

                                       One of these stones was very smooth, smooth and very attractive, while the other stone was rough, rough and unkempt.

     One day the rough, rough stone asked with a smooth stone, "We both have flown away from the high mountains, then why are you so chubby, smooth and attractive while I am not?"

"I know that in the beginning I was exactly like you, but after that I have continued for several years and constantly breaks and wanders ... I do not know how many hurricanes I have encountered ... The thunderbolt has thrown me on the rocks ... and I have ever cut my body with my own edge ... then I have found this form somewhere.

You know, I had an alternative to Maharishi that I should be able to escape from these difficulties and be comfortably placed on one side ... but is such a living also? No, in my eyes it is worse than death!

You too do not get disappointed with this form of yours ... If you have to struggle yet and continue to struggle, one day you will become even more beautiful, chubby, smooth and attractive than me.


Do not accept the form that you do not agree with ... You are the same today I was yesterday .... Tomorrow you will be what I am today ... or maybe even better! ", The smooth stone fulfilled its point.

Friends, there is so much power in struggle that it keeps changing the life of a person. No matter how ominous you are in today ... do not leave the struggle .... Do not stop your efforts. You will find many times that your efforts are not getting any results, but do not give up trying. And when you do this, there is no power in the world that will prevent you from succeeding.

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7 Habits of happy people .........

Habit 1: Looking for good living good is not evil:

               Human beings have a natural tendency to catch the negativity early. Psychologists call this tendency "Negativity bias". Most people see the shortage of others in a hurry and do not pay attention to the good, but those who are happy, find good in every situation, they believe that whatever happens is good. . It is very easy to see goodness in any person, you just have to ask yourself a question, "After all, why is this person good?", And know that your brain will count you so many experiences and things that you are good in that person Will appear

One more thing, you do not want to find good in people only, but in every situation, you have to be positive and see what is good in it. For example, if you have not been selected in any job interview, then you should think that perhaps Bhagwan has kept a good job for you that you will get late, and you can ask an experienced person, he will also give you That will tell.


Habit 2: Those who are happy, know sorry and ask for forgiveness:

              Everyone has their own ego- which can be hurt by knowing-or else others. But those who are happy, do not take heart from heart, they know how to forgive, not only themselves but also themselves.

And on the contrary if there is a mistake of such people, then they will not even regret asking for forgiveness. They know that the ego of vain will make their life complex, so they never skimp in saying "sorry". Whenever I make a mistake, I never try to justify it and accept it and ask for forgiveness.

Forgiveness and apology makes your brain lighten, protects you from unnecessary confusion and disturbing thoughts, and as a result you are happy. One of the best articles written by Shikha ji "Why is it so important to forgive?" I have already shared with you. This article can improve your understanding of forgiveness ...

Habit 3: People who are happy, develop a strong support system around you:


              This support system has two pillars, Family and Friends (F & F). F & F has a huge contribution to be happy in life. Even if you have wealth all over the world, you may be fame, but if F & F is not there you will not be able to be happy for a long time.

Maybe it seems to be very clear to you, it seems that you also have great friends and a very loving family, but think seriously about it. How many friends do you have, without any hesitation, at 3 o'clock in the night, can you raise or can you ever get financial help?

Family and friends should never be granted for granted, to build a strong relationship, you have to look up your own interests, look for others, and they have to be genuinely liked. Improve your relationships as much as you can, small things like wishing birthday, congratulating, doing true praise, meeting with smiling, warming your hands and hugging your relationships. And when you do that, you get the same in return and make your life happy.

Habit 4: Those who are happy, do their work or mind what they do:
              
               If you work your mind, your mind will definitely increase your Happiness Quotient, but most people are not so lucky, they have to work in a job or business which is not according to their interest. But those who are happy keep their mind in the work they do, even if parallely they try to get their favorite job.

I have heard many times people do the evil of the company where I work, calling my work the most useless work of the world, doing so makes your life even more difficult. Those who are happy do not do the evil of their work, they focus on their positive aspects and enjoy it.

But, I must say here that if we look at the happiest people in the world, then they will be the same people who do their work, so if you are enjoying what you are doing, learning from him is a good thing but Steve Jobs Remember also something like that:

                                       Your work will be a big part of your life, and the only way to be truly-satisfied is to do what you really think is a big thing ... and the only way to do great work is to do what you do You enjoy


Habit 5: Those who are happy do not believe every thing that comes to their mind:

              According to the scientists, our brain produces 60,000 ideas everyday, and in the case of a common man, most of these thoughts are negative. If you feed your brain daily with thousands of negative thoughts then it will be difficult to be happy.

Therefore, those who are happy, do not allow bad thoughts coming in the brain to flourish for long. They know that giving benefit of doubt, they know that what they are thinking is wrong, they are bad thinking that they are good, they are good. By doing this, the person relaxes, in fact, according to our thinking, there are such chemical releases in the brain that make our mood happy or unhappy.


When you accept the negative thoughts as true then your blood pressure starts increasing and you become tense, on the other side when you make a doubt on it, you unconsciously give the signal to remain relaxed.

Habit 6: Happy people see their life or work associated with some major purpose:

              Once an old lady was coming from somewhere, then she saw three laborers making a building. He first asked the laborer, "What are you doing?", "I do not see that I'm carrying bricks." He answered.

Then he went to another laborer and asked the same question, "What are you doing?", "I am working hard to feed my family?" The answer came.

Then he went to the third laborer and again asked the same question, "What are you doing?"

The person responded enthusiastically, "I am making this city the grandest temple"

You can guess which of these three will be most happy!

Habit 7: People who are happy, consider themselves responsible for things happening in their lives:

        Happy people know to take responsibility. If something bad happens to them, then they do not blame others on others, but consider themselves responsible for it. For example: If they are late for the office, then traffic jam does not bother, but they think that going a little earlier Was Needed.

Let the success of your success be good for others but consider yourself to be responsible for your failure. When you blame others for the bad things that happen to you, you get angry inside, but when you consider yourself to be responsible, you are a little disappointed and then try to correct things. I myself consider myself responsible for every good and bad thing happening in my life. By doing this my energy starts to improve myself instead of finding fault in others, and eventually increases my happiness.

Friends, you may already follow some of these things partially or perhaps completely. But if any habit will improve yourself a bit, then it will definitely increase your happiness. Personally, I have to improve part of the forgiving part in Habit 2. So let us all increase our Happiness Quotient and try to live a happy life.

All the best!




सकारात्मक और प्रेरक जीवन उद्धरण

आपको क्या प्रभावित करता है? ऐसी कई चीजें हैं जो प्रेरणा प्रदान कर सकती हैं - अन्य लोगों को महान चीजें हासिल करने, अन्य लोगों को विपत्ति से उबरने, महान लोगों से प्रेरणादायक उद्धरण सुनने, यहां तक कि प्रकृति की सुंदर सुंदरता हमें याद दिला सकती है कि हम कितने भाग्यशाली हैं कि हम जीवित रहें।                                                           

                यह भूलना आसान है कि वास्तव में एक अद्भुत उपहार जीवन क्या है। हमारे जीवन एक ब्रह्मांडीय झपकी के अलावा कुछ भी नहीं हैं। यहां तक कि हमारी प्रतीत होता है कि पूरी दुनिया में 200-400 बिलियन सितारों की आकाशगंगा के चारों ओर एक औसत आकार के स्टार को घुमाने वाला छोटा नीला बिंदु है, जो कि अरबों के बीच ही एक आकाशगंगा है। फिर भी एक संक्षिप्त क्षण के लिए, हमें चेतना के अस्तित्व के चमत्कारों का अनुभव करना पड़ता है।


जीवन पर सकारात्मक दृष्टिकोण रखना प्रेरणा खोजने का एक महत्वपूर्ण हिस्सा है। उपरोक्त अनुच्छेद में, क्या आप हमारे ब्रह्मांड की विशालता और इसके भीतर हमारी अनूठी जगह के बारे में पढ़ने को प्रेरित महसूस करते थे, या आप सब के महत्व पर अभिभूत और उदास महसूस करते थे?

हमारे दिमाग उन चीज़ों को ढूंढने के लिए वायर्ड हैं जिन्हें हम ढूंढ रहे हैं - यदि आप हमेशा क्रोधित हो जाते हैं या चीजों को गलत होने का इंतजार कर रहे हैं, तो आपका जीवन उस पर प्रतिबिंबित होगा। दूसरी तरफ, जीवन पर सकारात्मक दृष्टिकोण रखने से आपको खुशी मिल जाएगी और आपको कम से कम उम्मीद होने पर प्रेरणा मिलेगी।

बेशक, ऐसे समय होते हैं जब जयजयकार या सकारात्मक महसूस करना मुश्किल होता है - जीवन मुश्किल हो सकता है। यदि आपको आधे खाली के बजाय कप को आधा भरा देखने में परेशानी हो रही है, तो जीवन के बारे में कुछ सकारात्मक उद्धरण पढ़ने से आप अपने फंक से बाहर निकलने में मदद कर सकते हैं। यहां कुछ प्रेरणादायक जीवन उद्धरण दिए गए हैं जो आपको जीवन की अद्भुत संभावना को देखने में मदद करते हैं।     

"जीवन 10% है जो हमारे साथ होता है और 9 0% हम इसके प्रति कैसे प्रतिक्रिया करते हैं।"
                                                                                                                                      - डेनिस पी। किम्ब्रो
             

"कुछ भी करने के लिए कोई शाही सड़क नहीं है। एक समय में एक चीज, उत्तराधिकार में सभी चीजें। जो तेजी से बढ़ता है, तेजी से सूख जाता है। जो धीरे-धीरे बढ़ता है, धीरज रखता है। "
                                                                                                                " योशीया गिल्बर्ट हॉलैंड"                   

"जीवन से डरो मत। मान लीजिए कि जीवन जीने योग्य है, और आपकी धारणा इस तथ्य को बनाने में मदद करेगी। "
                   विलियम जेम्स

"अपने पैसे को दोगुना करने का सबसे तेज़ तरीका इसे फोल्ड करना है और उसे अपनी जेब में वापस रखना है।"
- रोजर्स 

"जब मैं किसी को श्वास सुनता हूं, 'जीवन कठिन है,' मैं हमेशा पूछने के लिए प्रेरित हूं, 'क्या तुलना की गई?'"

- सिडनी हैरिस

"महान विचारों के साथ अपने दिमाग को पोषित करें। वीरता में विश्वास करने के लिए नायकों बनाता है। "

- बेंजामिन Disraeli

"सफलता के लिए वास्तविक अवसर व्यक्ति के भीतर है, न कि नौकरी में।"

- जिग जिग्लार

"चिड़ियों को देखो; वे नहीं जानते कि वे अगले पल में क्या करेंगे। आइए हम सचमुच क्षण से पल तक जीएं। "

- महात्मा गांधी

"लक पसीने का लाभांश है। जितना अधिक आप पसीना करते हैं, आपको भाग्यशाली मिलता है। "

- रे क्रोक

"जब मैं जो कुछ करता हूं उसे छोड़ देता हूं, तो मैं बन जाता हूं जो मैं हो सकता हूं।"

- लाओ त्सू

"आप अपने आप में सबसे खराब दुश्मन या सबसे अच्छा दोस्त पा सकते हैं।"

- अंग्रेजी Proverb


"जो भी ज्यादा प्यार करता है, बहुत कुछ करता है, और बहुत कुछ पूरा कर सकता है, और प्यार में क्या किया जाता है अच्छी तरह से किया जाता है।"

- विन्सेंट वॉन गॉग

"साहस मानव गुणों में से पहला है क्योंकि यह गुणवत्ता है जो अन्य सभी की गारंटी देता है।"

- विंस्टन चर्चिल

"इस दुनिया में बड़ी चीज इतनी ज्यादा नहीं है कि आप कहां खड़े हो जाएं, जैसा कि आप किस दिशा में आगे बढ़ रहे हैं।"

- ओलिवर वेंडेल होम्स

"हर दिन जीते जैसे कि आपका जीवन अभी शुरू हुआ था।"

- जोहान वुल्फगैंग वॉन गोएथे




When do we fail? | The biggest reason for failure

A few days ago I was watching a motorized video of Sandeep Maheshwari. In that he said a very good thing that I am here as quote here ...

He stands on stage and says -


Asafalta ke karan due to failure you imagine a cricketer's match is going on ... you are batting here .... This game of life is not a game of cricket ..

It's related to cricket, I'm giving you just one example ... but this is life ... you are batting here ....

There are no wickets behind ... there is no wicketkeeper ... there are no other players ...

Life is in front of us ... life is ... which is going to throw a ball after one ...



The ball is coming ... a ball came ... ..you rotated the bat .... Ball missed, got behind ...

What will you do now ???

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This game is such, where I told you no ... there are no wickets ... there is no other player .... means

Even if you wish, you can not get out in the life of your life ... until you leave the ground and do not run away! No power in the world can beat you if you keep scared on the pitch ... "

Related:
Sandeep Maheshwari's Best Inspiring Thought
Sandeep Maheshwari - This person can change your life! (Possibly most of his inspirational biography on the internet)
That's right and easy to understand. No?

Sandeep Maheshwari explained the real life with the example of cricket and now I try to explain Real Life with the example of cricket.

Sri Lankan was a player, only one thing was going on in his mind .... Cricket.cricket and bus cricket ...



On his hard work and passion, he got an opportunity to debut in Sri Lanka's Test team ....

First Innings ...... Zero Pay Out

Second Innings ....... Zero Pay Out

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Removed from the team ....

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practice ... practice ... .practice ....

Continued well in First Class Matches and got a chance again after 21 months.

First Innings ...... Zero Pay Out

Second Innings ....... 1 run out

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Then out of the team

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Practice ... practice..Practice ....



Thousands of runs were scored in First Class, and once again after 17 months, there was a chance ....

First Innings ...... Zero Pay Out

Second Innings ....... Zero Pay Out

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Then removed from the team ....

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Practice ... Practice ... .Practice ... .Practice ... Practice ... .Practice ...

And three years later that player was given the chance ... .. whose name was Marvan Atapattu

This time, Atapattu did not play and he played frankly and .... Sri Lanka made 16 centuries and 6 double centuries and made Sri Lanka one of the most successful captains!

Think, the person who took 6 years to make his second run, if he can do such a big thing then any man in the world can do anything!

There is a need to be stunned to pass some ... ... it is easy to leave ... it is easy to leave the field ... It is difficult to remain tired ... and if that remains, then it will surely succeed tomorrow.

So do not leave your insistence on getting whatever you have decided to get .... Do not shorten your goal ... Do not let your focus be diverted ....

And there is no mountain to do this ... Thousands of people have done .... About six years ago when I started blogging in Hindi then there was no money in it ... Traffic ... even after 6 months of starting, I also get 100 page views per day I did not meet ... At that time I could leave the field with all the logical excuses .... But I thought and AKC became one of the world's most educated motivational Hindi blogs one day. (You can read my story here: leaving a MNC job to be a full time blogger)

Guys, often people talk of being passionate or a kind of madness to get success.

I understand, this kind of obsession may be beneficial to you, but if he does not understand it, then you do not get much more in this round. Do not wait that you will ever be obsessed with something and then you get success in it. Who will know when it will be ... .and even that will not!

Just by thinking of thinking, set criteria for success for yourself and jumping into the ground ... my definition of success is big or small .. No mileage ... .. My success is my success in my eyes! Whether the world admires him or makes fun of him ....

That is, the question-

When do we fail?

Just a small answer ...



We only fail and only fail in a single face .... Then when we release our Efforts for success ....

Therefore, do not ever fail on your own, but try to convince those who think that you will fail!
All the best!

Thursday 22 November 2018

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Friends, there is hardly anyone who does not have tension or anxiety. Occasionally there is no harm in doing so. But if this tension persists for a long period of time, it can affect your physical and mental health badly.

1-It is never too late to become what you could become.

2-You're here for just a few moments Do not hurry, do not worry, do not worry And make sure that you feel the flowers coming in the way.

3-It is never too late to become what you could become.

            It is not good to forget to live in the vicinity of dreams.

4-Regardless of how difficult it is to live life, there is always something that you can do and which can be successful.


5-The most important thing is to enjoy your life - be happy - that just means it matters.

6-Life is small, and it is up to you to make it sweet.

7-Life does not want us to be the best, it just wants us to try our best.

8-Stress is to think what you should be. The rest is what you are.

9-How beautiful Do nothing and relax after that.

10-Sometimes the most important thing in the entire day is to relax in between two deep breaths.

11-Sometimes people are beautiful. Not appearing. Not in what they speak. Just like them they are.

12-Your mind will answer most of the questions if you learn to rest and to wait for the answer.

13-Life is not as serious. As much as Mind makes it.
14-Besides increasing its speed there is much more in life.

15-Sometimes the most productive thing you can do is relax.

16-The most wasted day in all days is the day you are not laughing.
17-You do not always need a plan. Sometimes you just have to take breath, have faith, let go and see what happens.

18-Nobody can give you peace except you yourself.

19-Almost every one thing will be working again if you unplug it for a few minutes ... you too

20-Your cool mind is the biggest weapon against your challenges. So keep calm.

21-Ah, for the comfort of the truth, there is nothing like staying at home.

22-Slow down and everything you're following will come around you and will take you on.

23-The time to relax is when you do not have time for it.

24-If you want to win with the concerns of life, live in this moment, live in this breath.

25-There is no need to explain the loaf and it is an excuse for itself.

26-There is a calmness for life living in gratitude, a quiet joy.

27-Try to be slower for faster working relief.

28-Do nothing, just keep walking, listen carefully to all those things you can not hear, and do not underestimate the importance of not worry.

29-Sometimes the questions are complex and the answer is simple.

30-To enjoy life, not to suffer.

31-When I have a time to die then I will be the one who will die, so let me live my life in the way that I want to live.

32-If you are reading this ... congratulations, you are alive. If this is not a reason to smile, then I do not know what to do.

33-And in the end, these are not your years in life that matter. It's your life in those years that matters

34-Keeping your mind strong makes you strong for everyone in your life ... you are also involved in this.

35-Always remember as much as you believe, you are more brave than that, more powerful than what you look, are more intelligent than you think, and the more you imagined it is twice as beautiful.

36-As much as anyone else is worthy of your love and affection in the entire universe, you are also yourself.

37-What is behind us and what is ahead of us is very small things in comparison to what is within us.

38-Why should we worry about what others think of us, do we believe in their ideas more than ourselves?

39-Nobody can feel inferior without your permission

40-The better you feel about yourself, the less you need to show off

41-You are very powerful, you just need to know how powerful you are.

42-Nobody can get back to life after living. Look ahead, that's where your future is.

43-When I let him know what I am, I become what I can be.

44-Slow down and enjoy life. It's not just the scenery that you miss because of the speed you move - you also miss that where else are you going.

45-Your smile is the signature of God on your face, do not let it dry with your tears or get rid of anger.

46-As you grow towards a dream, the dream grows on your side.

47-Be who you are and what they say, you feel, because those people who believe in bad do not mean that those who matter are not bad.

48-Forgive others, not because they deserve forgiveness, but because you deserve peace.

49-Think a little bit, live a little more.

50-In the world in which you want to create something more continuously, to remain the same is the biggest achievement.

51-You are your hero of your story.

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आप अपने ब्लॉग पर कड़ी मेहनत कर रहे हैं, आप स्थापित महसूस करते हैं। अब यातायात के बारे में गंभीर होने का समय है। हम आपके साथ दोस्त हैं - ब्लॉग ट्रैफिक बढ़ाने के लिए आप पांच आसान कदम उठा सकते हैं!

1. अपनी सामग्री के बारे में सामरिक बनें
यदि आप ब्लॉग यातायात में वृद्धि करना चाहते हैं, तो सबसे अच्छी बात यह है कि आप आसानी से बेहतर सामग्री बना सकते हैं। आपने शायद पहले यह सुना है - "सामग्री राजा" शब्द को एक फ्रेट पार्टी में एक फ़नल से अधिक चारों ओर फेंक दिया जाता है। लेकिन "बेहतर सामग्री" बनाना सिर्फ गुणवत्ता के बारे में नहीं है। इसका मतलब है कि आपकी सामग्री विपणन प्रयासों के साथ और अधिक सामरिक होना।



ब्लॉग यातायात कैसे बढ़ाएं
सबसे सफल सामग्री वह प्रकार है जो एक विशिष्ट आवश्यकता को पूरा करती है। अपने दर्शकों के बारे में सोचें और उन्हें क्या पसंद है। इन दिनों सामग्री हमेशा लगभग दो श्रेणियों में से एक में आती है: ठंडा और हास्यास्पद या उपयोगी और शैक्षिक। या तो चुनें और आप शायद एक अच्छी शुरुआत के लिए बंद हो।

यदि आपको विचारों की आवश्यकता है, तो क्वारा देखें और देखें कि आपके उद्योग विषय से संबंधित कौन से प्रश्न पूछे जा रहे हैं। यह देखने के लिए कि आपके क्षेत्र में दूसरों ने क्या लिखा है, बज़सुमो का उपयोग करने का प्रयास करें, फिर कुछ और बेहतर बनाएं। या इन आठ आसान ब्लॉग विषय जेनरेटर में से एक का उपयोग करें।

जब सामग्री शैली की बात आती है, तो चौंकाने वाले आंकड़ों, सुंदर इन्फोग्राफिक्स और वीडियो के माध्यम से समृद्ध कहानी के लिए शूट करें। उन चीज़ों को बनाएं जो लोग लिंक करना चाहते हैं और साझा करना चाहते हैं।

अपने ब्लॉग के लिए सदाबहार सामग्री बनाएँ
यह सुनिश्चित करने का प्रयास करें कि आपकी अधिकांश सामग्री सदाबहार है। सदाबहार सामग्री ऐसी सामग्री है जो हमेशा वेब पर रह सकती है और वह समय अप्रासंगिक नहीं होगा। उदाहरण के लिए, इस साल के ऑस्कर नामांकन के बारे में एक पोस्ट कुछ महीनों में बेकार हो जाएगी। महानतम फिल्म क्लासिक्स के बारे में एक पोस्ट वर्षों से प्रासंगिक रहेगी, जिससे इसे सदाबहार बना दिया जाएगा।

क्राफ्टिंग किकस हेडलाइंस
एक ब्लॉगर के रूप में, आपको हमेशा यह सुनिश्चित करना चाहिए कि आप अनूठा रूप से भयानक सुर्खियां बना रहे हैं। आपका शीर्षक आपकी साइट पर आगंतुकों को प्राप्त करता है और उनकी रुचि को कैप्चर करता है।

कुछ सुझाव देते हैं कि आपकी शीर्षक आपकी वास्तविक पोस्ट से अधिक महत्वपूर्ण है! यदि आपके पास एक शर्मीली शीर्षक के पीछे छुपा एक महान सामग्री टुकड़ा है, तो यह एक त्वरित मौत मर जाएगा। उपस्थिति सबकुछ हैं, और जैसे ही आप अपने रहने-घर-बीमार कपड़े पहने हुए विवाह को नहीं दिखाएंगे, आप अपने ब्लॉग पोस्ट को बढ़ावा देने के लिए कमजोर शीर्षकों पर भरोसा नहीं कर सकते हैं।

विभिन्न शीर्षकों के साथ प्रयोग करने से डरो मत। अलग-अलग शीर्षकों के साथ अपनी पोस्ट को कई बार साझा करें और देखें कि कौन सी शैली सर्वोत्तम काम करती है।

अधिक ब्लॉग यातायात की आवश्यकता है? यहां हमारी साइट पर यातायात बढ़ाने के 25 तरीके, हमारी नि: शुल्क मार्गदर्शिका प्राप्त करें।
अपने सर्वश्रेष्ठ ब्लॉग पोस्ट दिखाने के लिए एक न्यूजलेटर बनाएं
पदोन्नति को आपकी सामग्री रणनीति का एक बड़ा हिस्सा होना चाहिए, ताकि आपकी हार्ड अर्जित ब्लॉग पोस्ट उस ट्रैफिक को ड्राइव कर सकें जो आप इतनी सख्त इच्छा रखते हैं!

अपने ब्लॉग पर अधिक ट्रैफ़िक चलाने शुरू करने का एक तेज़ और आसान तरीका ब्लॉग न्यूज़लेटर के लिए ईमेल एकत्र करना प्रारंभ करना है। एक बार जब आप उन संपर्कों को कैप्चर कर लेते हैं, तो आप उन्हें अपनी वेबसाइट पर वापस आने वाले पहले से ही परिचित आगंतुकों को लाकर, अपनी सर्वश्रेष्ठ पोस्ट वाली साप्ताहिक या मासिक ईमेल भेज सकते हैं। चूंकि ये उपयोगकर्ता पहले से ही आपके ब्लॉग से सहज हैं, संभावना है कि वे अपनी अगली यात्रा पर थोड़ा और अधिक खोज सकते हैं। कौन जानता है कि उन्हें क्या मिलेगा?

2. कीवर्ड से डरो मत
यदि आप वास्तव में अपने ब्लॉग पर बड़े समय के ट्रैफिक को ड्राइव करना चाहते हैं, तो कीवर्ड और एसईओ को आपकी रणनीति का हिस्सा बनना होगा। लोग इन दिनों वास्तव में परेशान हो जाते हैं जब आप एसईओ के नाम पर कुछ करने का सुझाव देते हैं, लेकिन याद रखें, सही होने पर खोज इंजन अनुकूलन ठीक है। ठीक से ज्यादा - यह आश्चर्यजनक है! आपको Google से लक्षित ट्रैफ़िक मिलता है, और उपयोगकर्ताओं को वह जानकारी और उत्तर मिलते हैं जिनके लिए वे वेब खोज रहे हैं।

तो आगे बढ़ो, छत से चिल्लाओ, "मुझे कीवर्ड की परवाह है!" ज़ोर से रहो और मेरे दोस्त पर गर्व करें।

एसईओ के साथ याद रखने के लिए वे महत्वपूर्ण चीज मॉडरेशन में सभी अच्छी चीजें हैं।

अपने संदर्भ पाठ में कीवर्ड का प्रयोग करें? हाँ!

खोज क्वेरी के साथ पूरी तरह से अपनी सामग्री को संतृप्त करने के लिए कीवर्ड स्टफिंग का उपयोग करें? नहीं।



किसी विशिष्ट विषय पर आपके द्वारा लिखे गए अन्य संबंधित ब्लॉग पोस्ट से लिंक करें? हाँ!

इतने सारे लिंक शामिल करें कि नीली हाइपरलिंक्स के साथ हर दूसरी वाक्य बिंदीदार है? नहीं।



कीवर्ड को आपकी रूपरेखा को प्रभावित करने दें और अपनी पोस्ट को अवधारणा में मदद करें? हाँ!

उपयोगकर्ता अनुभव से पहले कीवर्ड और खोज बॉट रखें? नहीं!

Google एक दिन में अरबों खोजों को चलाता है। मेरा विश्वास करो, आप उस पाई का टुकड़ा पाने के लिए कीवर्ड का उपयोग करना चाहते हैं।



अधिक ब्लॉग यातायात
 कृपया और ज्यादा!

पहले से कहीं अधिक साइटों और विज्ञापनदाताओं के ऑनलाइन, सभी लोकप्रिय कीवर्ड के लिए प्रतिस्पर्धा करने के साथ, आप प्रतिस्पर्धा करने का मौका कैसे खड़े करते हैं? पाठ्यक्रम की लंबी पूंछ की खोजशब्द!

ब्लॉगर के लिए लंबे समय तक कीवर्ड कीवर्ड क्यों करें?
लंबी पूंछ वाले कीवर्ड 3+ कीवर्ड से बना खोज वाक्यांश हैं। लंबी पूंछ वाले कीवर्ड को लक्षित करना आसान होता है (और जब पीपीसी की बात आती है तो सस्ता) क्योंकि इन वाक्यांशों के लिए कम प्रतिस्पर्धा होती है। लंबी पूंछ की खोजशब्दों को लक्षित करना वास्तव में Google में शीर्ष SERP स्थान प्राप्त करने का आपका एकमात्र मौका है।



ब्लॉगर्स के लिए लंबी पूंछ कीवर्ड्स
 लंबी पूंछ शांत हैं। वे भी अग्नि प्रकार हैं।

उदाहरण के लिए, शायद आपको पसंद आएगा"स्वास्थ्य भोजन" के लिए Google में उच्च रैंक है क्योंकि आपका व्यवसाय एक स्वास्थ्य खाद्य भंडार है। अच्छी तरह से वसा (या पतला) होने का मौका - "स्वास्थ्य भोजन" एक सुंदर प्रतिस्पर्धी शब्द है। हालांकि, यदि आप "स्वास्थ्य खाद्य भोजन योजनाओं" या "बजट पर स्वास्थ्य भोजन" पर ध्यान केंद्रित करते हैं, तो उन लंबे कीवर्ड वाक्यांशों के लिए रैंकिंग का आपका मौका बहुत अधिक है।

 ब्लॉगर्स के लिए एसईओ: लंबी पूंछ की खोजशब्द खोजना आप इन भयानक लंबी- पूंछ कीवर्ड्स? Google के साथ शुरू करें। एक वाक्यांश में टाइप करना शुरू करें और देखें कि Google के स्वतः पूर्ण सुझाव क्या हैं। "यूरेका!" सुझावों का ध्यान रखें। ब्लॉग ट्रैफ़िक बढ़ाएं अगला, उन शर्तों में से कुछ को Google में डालें और कुछ Google के संबंधित खोज सुझावों को खरोंच करें (आप उन्हें पृष्ठ के निचले भाग में पाएंगे)। ब्लॉग पर यातायात बढ़ाएं अगला, उन सभी लंबी पूंछ वाक्यांशों को लें जिनके साथ आप आए हैं और उन्हें Google कीवर्ड प्लानर में डाल दें।

 ब्लॉग यातायात युक्तियों को बढ़ाएं देखें कि कौन से वाक्यांश सबसे अधिक ट्रैफ़िक चलाते हैं (Google खोजशब्दों के सुझावों को भी देखें) और उच्च खोज मात्रा और कम प्रतिस्पर्धा वाले लोगों को बाहर निकालें। वे आपकी सोना गूंध लंबी पूंछ हैं! उन खोजशब्दों के चारों ओर लक्षित सामग्री बनाने का प्रयास करें। ब्लॉगर्स के लिए एसईओ वर्डप्रेस प्लगइन्स एसईओ के साथ ब्लॉगर्स की मदद के लिए डिज़ाइन किए गए कुछ महान वर्डप्रेस प्लगइन्स हैं। वे आपके यूआरएल स्लग को सही तरीके से स्थापित करना आसान बनाते हैं, आपको सही मेटा विवरण तैयार करने में मदद करते हैं, साइटमैप सेट करते हैं, और अन्य एसईओ तकनीकी बिट्स को नेविगेट करने में आपकी सहायता करते हैं जो स्वाभाविक रूप से ब्लॉगर्स के लिए नहीं आते हैं। दो पसंदीदा हैं: एक एसईओ में योस्टएल द्वारा वर्डप्रेस एसईओ Pack

3। अपना झुंड ढूंढें: अपने दर्शकों के घोंसले का शिकार करें जब आपके ब्लॉग को बढ़ावा देने की बात आती है, तो यह आवश्यक है कि आप अपना समय कहां व्यतीत करें। हालांकि, सामाजिक नेटवर्क की एक श्रृंखला में अपनी उपस्थिति स्थापित करना अच्छा होता है, आप जल्दी से हर सामाजिक साइट के साथ उत्कृष्टता प्राप्त करने की कोशिश कर सकते हैं। अपने पैरों को डुबोएं और देखें कि कौन से सोशल नेटवर्क आपके लिए सबसे अच्छा काम करते हैं। क्या आपका ब्लॉग दृश्यों पर भारी है? आप शायद अपनी जगहें लिंक्डइन पर सेट करना चाहेंगे। क्या आपका ब्लॉग बेवकूफ संस्कृति की ओर अधिक है? सही subreddits खोजें और आप इसे बड़ा हड़ताल कर सकते हैं। यदि आप समुद्री शैवाल की तलाश में हैं, तो आप समुंदर के किनारे जाते हैं। ब्लॉग यातायात को चलाने के लिए, आपको उस स्थान पर जाना होगा जहां आपका झुंड लटका हुआ है। पता है कि पंख की अपनी पक्षी कहां मिलें। प्रासंगिक वेबसाइटों से मजबूत रेफ़रल लिंक बनाने के लिए अपने दर्शकों को समझना भी महत्वपूर्ण है। ब्लॉग यातायात मुक्त करें Google Analytics का उपयोग यह देखने के लिए करें कि कौन सी वेबसाइटें सबसे रेफ़रल ट्रैफ़िक चला रही हैं। अपने लक्षित दर्शकों के फ़ोरम और साइटें खोजें और सक्रिय हो जाएं। उचित होने पर चर्चा में शामिल हों और लिंक या ब्लॉग टिप्पणियां पोस्ट करें। यह बड़ा है - आप स्पैमी के रूप में नहीं आ सकते हैं। आपको समुदाय के एक मूल्यवान सदस्य के रूप में देखा जाना चाहिए जो योग्यता का कुछ साझा कर रहा है। अगर किसी को हर सप्ताह के लिए स्वस्थ भोजन योजनाओं को निर्धारित करने के बारे में सलाह की आवश्यकता है, तो आगे बढ़ें और उन्हें अपने संसाधन पर इंगित करें! यदि वे जोकरों की बढ़िया कला को महारत हासिल करने में अपने संघर्षों पर चर्चा कर रहे हैं, तो आप शायद साथ चल सकते हैं। एक बार जब आप अपना परिवार पा लेते हैं, तो सभी में जाएं, आपने अपने मुख्य नेटवर्क खोजे हैं, उन्हें अपना फोकल प्वाइंट बनाएं। नील पटेल बताते हैं कि जिज्ञासा-केंद्रित शीर्षकों और भावनात्मक सामग्री का उपयोग करने के अलावा, अपरिवर्तनीय, किसी दिए गए पृष्ठ पर उनके पास सामाजिक साझाकरण बटन की संख्या भी सीमित है। पसंद विरोधाभास से पता चलता है कि बहुत से विकल्प उपयोगकर्ताओं को जबरदस्त और तनाव दे सकते हैं। जबकि हम मान सकते हैं कि अधिक विकल्प बेहतर हैं, अध्ययनों से पता चला है कि अधिकांश व्यक्ति सैकड़ों की बजाय कुछ अलग विकल्पों के साथ खुश हैं। अविश्वसनीय रूप से केवल दो शेयर बटन हैं - फेसबुक और ट्विटर। उन साइटों पर अपने सामाजिक साझाकरण चयन को सीमित करने पर विचार करें जिनसे आपको सबसे अधिक लाभ उठाना पड़ता है। अधिक ब्लॉग ट्रैफिक प्राप्त करें और अधिक ब्लॉग आवागमन? सिर्फ पूछना। कभी-कभी जो भी आप चाहते हैं उसे प्राप्त करने के लिए सरल हो सकता है। सोशल बेकर्स के एक अध्ययन में पाया गया कि जिन उपयोगकर्ताओं ने अपने अनुयायियों से ट्विटर पर अपनी पोस्ट को "आरटी" करने के लिए कहा है, वे प्रति ट्वीट 73.48 औसत रीट्वीट प्राप्त करते हैं। जो लोग रीट्वीट के लिए नहीं पूछते थे वे सिर्फ 2.0 9 रीट्वीट प्राप्त हुए। अगर आप चाहते हैं कि लोग आपकी सामग्री साझा करें, तो उनसे पूछें! यह केवल सभी कॉल-टू-एक्शन के लिए जाता है। जबकि आपके इरादे आपके लिए स्पष्ट प्रतीत हो सकते हैं, आगंतुकों के लिए कार्रवाई के पाठ्यक्रम को दोहराने से संभावना बढ़ जाती है कि वे

4 के माध्यम से अनुसरण करेंगे।

 स्पीड और मोबाइल के लिए अनुकूलित करें आपके आगंतुक आपके ब्लॉग को लोड करने के लिए चारों ओर इंतजार नहीं करेंगे। यदि आपका पृष्ठ पर्याप्त तेज़ी से नहीं आ रहा है, तो वे बैक बटन दबाएंगे और फ्लैपजैक फ्लिप करने से पहले अगली Google लिस्टिंग (यानी आपके प्रतिद्वंद्वी) पर जाएं। आपकी साइट की गति की जांच करना चाहिए? कोई बात नहीं! Google की पेज स्पीड इनसाइट्स टूल आपको अपना स्पीड स्कोर देगा, साथ ही सुझावों के बारे में सुझाव देगा कि आप अपनी साइट को पैंट में किक देने के लिए क्या कर सकते हैं। ब्लॉग ट्रैफ़िक को बढ़ावा देना एक ही नस में, आधुनिक उपयोगकर्ता दिन में लगभग 3 घंटे अपनी टेबलेट या मोबाइल फोन पर खर्च करते हैं। मोबाइल जा रहे ब्लॉगर्स के लिए कोई ब्रेनर नहीं है। अगर आपको नहीं लगता कि आपका वर्तमान ब्लॉग स्नफ पर है, तो इन ब्लैक वर्डप्रेस प्लगइन में से एक को जांचने पर विचार करें जो आपके ब्लू का संस्करण बनाने में मदद करता हैऔर यह मोबाइल उपकरणों के लिए अनुकूलित है। वर्डप्रेस द्वारा पॉटच मोबाइल प्लगइनजेटपैक (इसमें एक मोबाइल थीम विकल्प बेक किया गया है)

5। अन्य बच्चों के साथ अच्छा खेलें अच्छा व्यवहार ऑनलाइन एक लंबा रास्ता तय करते हैं। यदि आप ब्लॉग यातायात बनाना चाहते हैं, तो आप अपने आला में अन्य ब्लॉगर्स के साथ अच्छे संबंध स्थापित करना चाहेंगे। कभी-कभी आप अपने दुश्मनों, गेम ऑफ थ्रोन स्टाइल के साथ भी मिलना चाहेंगे। अन्य ब्लॉगों पर टिप्पणी और विभिन्न समुदायों में सक्रिय रहें। प्रमुख उद्योग लॉगर्स साक्षात्कार पर विचार करें या "सर्वश्रेष्ठ" पोस्ट में अन्य ब्लॉगर्स समेत (उदाहरण के लिए, टॉप 10 ब्लॉग्स रॉकिंग Pinterest)। एक बार जब आपके पास एक पोस्टर में उद्धृत या प्रदर्शित किया गया हो, तो उन्हें एक ट्वीट में टैग करने के लिए उन्हें टैग करें। संभावना है कि ब्लॉगर रीटिट करेगा और एक पोस्ट साझा करेगा, परिणामस्वरूप अधिक शेयर और अधिक ट्रैफिक प्राप्त करेगा। अपने ब्लॉग पोस्ट पर लिंक करना एसईओ के लिए बहुत अच्छा है, लेकिन बाहरी स्रोतों से भी लिंक करना महत्वपूर्ण है। यह Google को संकेत देता है कि आप स्पैमर नहीं हैं और उन अन्य ब्लॉगों के साथ सकारात्मक संबंध बनाने में सहायता करते हैं जिन्हें आप लिंक कर रहे हैं। अच्छे संबंध स्थापित करने से अतिथि पदों को एक टन आसान बना दिया जाता है। इन पांच नियमों का पालन करें और आप अपने ब्लॉग पर यातायात को किसी भी समय फ्लैट में नहीं देख पाएंगे!

सोने में गंदगी कैसे चालू करें।

यदि आप कभी गंदगी सोने में बदलना चाहते हैं, तो आप अकेले नहीं हैं। सालों पहले, कई लोगों ने ऐसा करने की कोशिश में काफी समय बिताया था। उन्हें लंबे नाम से बुलाया गया - "एल्केमिस्ट"। फिर भी उनमें से कोई भी वास्तव में इसे खींच नहीं सकता था। आखिरकार, कौन सा गंदगी सोने में बदल सकता है? आप सीखने के लिए आश्चर्यचकित हो सकते हैं कि एक रास्ता है। इस कहानी को सुनें और पता लगाएं।

बहुत पहले एशिया में बर्मा नामक देश में, एक युवा पत्नी रहती थी। वह अपने पति से बहुत प्यार करती थी, लेकिन उसके दिमाग में एक डर भारी था।

"पति," ने कहा, "पूरे दिन आप गंदगी सोने में बदलने की कोशिश करते हैं। आप और कुछ नहीं करते! जल्द ही, मुझे डर है कि हमारे सारे पैसे चले जाएंगे। "

"मैं यह हमारे लिए करता हूँ!" अपने पति ने कहा। "किसी दिन हम दोनों अमीर होंगे, और आप मुझे धन्यवाद देंगे!"

"अगर हम लंबे समय तक जीते हैं," उसकी पत्नी ने एक शांत आवाज़ में कहा। उसे पता था कि उसे मदद चाहिए, और इसलिए वह अपने पिता के घर गई।



"मैं यह हमारे लिए करता हूँ!" अपने पति ने कहा। "किसी दिन हम दोनों अमीर होंगे, और आप मुझे धन्यवाद देंगे!"



"पिताजी," उसने कहा। "सुबह से रात तक, मेरे पति गंदगी सोने में बदलने की कोशिश करता है। जल्द ही हम पैसे से बाहर होंगे। मैं उससे बात करने की कोशिश करता हूं, लेकिन वह नहीं सुनेंगे। कृपया, क्या आप उससे बात करेंगे? "

"मेरे प्रिय," उसके पिता ने कहा, "ज़ाहिर है।"

"धन्यवाद!" वह पहले से ही बेहतर महसूस कर रही थी।

अगले दिन, पिता अपनी बेटी के पति को देखने गए।

उसने कहा, "मैंने सुना है कि आप गंदगी को सोने में बदलने की कोशिश कर रहे हैं," उसने जवान आदमी से कहा।

युवा आदमी ने कहा, "मैं करूँगा!" "इसमें कुछ समय लगता है।"

पिताजी ने कहा, "मुझे पता है, और जवान आदमी आश्चर्यचकित हुआ। "आह! ऐसा कुछ है जो आप मेरे बारे में नहीं जानते। जब मैं तुम्हारी उम्र थी, मैं भी एक रसायनज्ञ था। "

युवा आदमी ने कहा, "तुम थे?"



"जब मैं तुम्हारी उम्र थी, मैं भी एक रसायनज्ञ था।"



पिता ने कहा, "और न केवल वह," लेकिन कई सालों बाद मुझे रहस्य पता चला। "

"तुम्हे पता है कैसै?"

बूढ़े आदमी ने कहा, "मैं करता हूं।" "लेकिन तब तक मैं बहुत बूढ़ा था और मेरे लिए इसे बाहर ले जाना बहुत मुश्किल था। मैं किसी को भी छोटा नहीं जानता था जिसे मैं भरोसा कर सकता था। "उसने अपने दामाद को आंखों में देखा।

"तुम मुझ पर भरोसा कर सकते हो!" जवान आदमी ने रोया। वह खुशी से कूद गया।

मुस्कुराते हुए चौड़े, दोनों ने हाथ हिलाया।

तब बूढ़े आदमी ने अपने दामाद को चांदी के पाउडर के बारे में बताया जो केला पत्तियों के पीछे बढ़ता है। केला के लिए बीज जमीन में लगाए जाने चाहिए जबकि एक विशेष जादू जादू के शब्द कहा जाता है। जब पौधे लंबे और परिपक्व हो जाते हैं, तो पत्तियों के पीछे से चांदी के पाउडर को ब्रश किया जाना चाहिए और बचाया जाना चाहिए।



मुस्कुराते हुए चौड़े, दोनों ने हाथ हिलाया।



युवा आदमी ने कहा, "इस चांदी के पाउडर की कितनी जरूरत है?"

पिता ने कहा, "दो पाउंड।"

"लेकिन वह सैकड़ों केला पौधों को ले जाएगा!" जवान आदमी रोया।

पिताजी ने कहा, "हां!" "यही कारण है कि यह मेरे लिए इसे बाहर ले जाने के लिए बहुत अधिक काम था! लेकिन अब, मैं जमीन किराए पर लेने और बीज खरीदने के लिए आपको धन उधार देने में सक्षम हूं। "

ऋण के साथ, जवान आदमी ने एक बड़ी साजिश किराए पर ली और जमीन को मंजूरी दे दी। उन्होंने उन पर जादू जादू कहकर बीज लगाए जिन्हें उन्होंने सीखा था। प्रत्येक दिन, जवान आदमी युवा पौधों की पंक्तियों पर चला गया। बहुत सावधानी से, उसने खरबूजे निकाली और कीटों को दूर रखा।

जब केले के पौधे लंबे और परिपक्व हो गए, तो जवान आदमी ने अपने पत्तों के पीछे से जादू चांदी के पाउडर को ब्रश किया। लेकिन केवल कुछ मुट्ठी पाउडर बचाया जा सकता है। उसे और जमीन खरीदनी पड़ी और अधिक केले बढ़ाना पड़ा। इसमें कुछ साल लगे, लेकिन अंत में उसके पास दो पाउंड थे। बहुत खुशी के साथ, वह अपने ससुर के घर गया।

"मेरे पास पर्याप्त चांदी का पाउडर है!" वह रोया।



बहुत खुशी के साथ, वह अपने ससुर के घर गया।



"महान!" अपने ससुर ने कहा। "अब मैं आपको दिखाऊंगा कि गंदगी को सोने में कैसे बदलना है! लेकिन सबसे पहले आपको केले के खेत से गंदगी की एक बाल्टी लेनी होगी। और आपको मेरी बेटी को ले जाना चाहिए - उसे भी जरूरी है।"

जवान आदमी समझ में नहीं आया क्यों, लेकिन वह खेत में भाग गया और गंदगी की एक बाल्टी खोद गया। तब उसकी पत्नी घर पर आई, और उनमें से दो बूढ़े आदमी के घर गए।

पिता ने अपनी बेटी से पूछा, "जब आपका पति केला पाउडर बचा रहा था, तो आपने केले के साथ क्या किया?"

"क्यों, मैंने उन्हें बेच दिया," उसने कहा। "इस तरह हम जीने में सक्षम हैं।"

"क्या आपने कोई पैसा बचाया?" पिता से पूछा।

"निश्चित रूप से," उसने कहा।

"क्या मैं इसे देख सकता हूं?" बूढ़े आदमी ने कहा। युवा महिला और उसके पति ने एक-दूसरे को एक त्वरित रूप दिया - यह अजीब था! लेकिन वह घर गई और एक बड़े बैग के साथ वापस आई। पिता ने देखा कि बैग के अंदर सोने के सिक्के थे।

"इसे नीचे सेट करें," उसने कहा। फिर उसने गंदगी की बाल्टी ली और उसे फर्श पर छोड़ दिया। उसने बैग लिया और गंदगी के बगल में एक ढेर में सोने के सिक्के डाले।

उसने कहा, "आप देखते हैं," अपने दामाद की ओर मुड़ते हुए, "तुमने गंदगी सोने में बदल दी है!"

जवान आदमी ने कहा, "क्या?"

"अच्छा मैं समझा!' बेटी ने कहा। "मेरे प्यारे," उसने कहा, अपने पति की ओर मुड़ते हुए। "तुमने गंदगी खेती की, और फिर हमने केले बेचे। अब हमारे पास सोने के सिक्के हैं! "

"लेकिन वह जादू नहीं है जो मुझे दिमाग में था," उसने कहा।

बेटी ने अपने पति को गाल पर एक चुंबन दिया, और वह मुस्कुरा दी।

"ठीक है," उसने कहा, "शायद यहां कुछ जादू है।"

"वास्तव में," पिता ने कहा। "अब चलो खाओ!"

तथा उनमें से तीन एक अच्छे, स्वादिष्ट रात के खाने के लिए बैठ गए।

10 Tips to Succeed in Job Interview

This is the second post of Job Interview Series. Hopefully you have already read the first post. If you have not read it, then read it once.

Job Interview Tips in Hindi

As per today, I will share 10 such things that I think are very important to get success in job interview with you. Apart from these things there are some important tips which I will share with you as Job Interview Dos & Don'ts in the post of tomorrow.


In these 10 Tips you will see the squeeze of my experience related to my interview. So let's know what 10 things to focus on in order to be successful in the interview is essential.


1) Take full care of creating CV / Resume:

The purpose of your CV should be to show to your potential employer why you are the best person for this job. Your CV itself is the first thing that goes in front of the interviewer. They can say that this is your first The impression happens.

If the interviewer does not like the CV good, or it shows childish mistakes, then his perception may be bad for you. And also keep in mind that your small things point to your big-grandchildren somewhere. If a person is inadvertent in making his CV, then there are many chances to do so in the job too, and the interviewer knows this well.



Must Read: How to Make a Perfect Resume or CV in 10 Minutes
It is also important to make CV good because candidates are sorted out on the basis of first CV in most companies, and if you are sorted out here, the rest of the tips will remain kept. So do not miss this most important step.

I can not tell how to create a CV here, but surely I can share some important points which you should pay attention to:

         Your CV should look professional.
         Use bullet points instead of large-scale paragraphs, they inspire interviewer more to read CVs.
         There should not be any spelling mistakes.
         If CV can be created in two pages then do not force them into four pages.
         Make a lot of changes in your CV according to different jobs.
         Try to highlight the points that are related to this job.
         After making the CV, take it from two to four people.

2) Give special attention to theoretical knowledge related to Job:

I am related to the insurance field for the last 5-6 years. I have fine knowledge of this field, but whenever I have an interview schedule, I repeat my old books, PPTs, and other resource material well.

Give equal importance to theoretical knowledge related to the job, I know some people who have a good knowledge of how practically they work, but they lack technical terms and theory, and because of this, Success was not found. You do not make such a mistake, and do not underestimate theoretical knowledge.

If I talk about it, then 60% of the entire preparation of the interview is given in this work. Here's the effort and simplification of things, your confidence increases, and the answers you give are clear. Interviewer also knows from the quality of the initial answers that you are a well prepared candidate or a casual candidate.

Interview should never take casually, this is a competition, you have to prove yourself better than others. And you can not do anything in any department. Therefore, pay any extra attention to theoretical knowledge related to the field you are going to give the interview.

I am not emphasizing the practical knowledge here because if you are a fresher then practical knowledge is not expected from you and if you are exeperienced then definitely you will have practical knowledge.


3) Keep yourself in the place of Employer:



Think of what you would find in an ideal candidate if you were an interviewer. Try to understand the specific requirement of job vacancy, and to meet those needs, you can showcase those qualities in the interview. On the other hand, you can also hide the qualities that do not fit for this job. .

For example: If you are going for a marketing job, you can highlight your travelling hobby, but if you are going for an operation job then you should not highlight it. You can make changes to your CV according to different job requirements, and make it even more effective.

Generally, an interviewer can work with your confidence, subject knowledge and stability, teamChecks, etc., it also happens that you are overqualified for some work, such as if the computer operator is working and if any MCA is interviewing for that job, the employer can choose to Hitchkega, because her job will be reduced in the hope of surviving. Therefore, if your qualification is more according to the job then it is better not to mention it. Similarly, when you look at your employer's place, there will be many things in your mind and you can prepare yourself accordingly.

.4) Prepare Frequently Asked Questions: Some questions are very common in job interviews, which are asked in almost every single interview. Prepare such questions well, as well as think about the questions that you can ask for your answer instead. Here I am giving a small list of such questions: Tell me about Yourself? / Walk me through you CV? / Introduce yourself / tell us about yourself? Do you have any questions? (This can be asked at the end of the Inerview.) Tell us about your current job, what about your current job, what is your work? Why do you want to join this company? Why is there a gap in your studies / job? Why is there a gap in your studies / job? / Why do you want to quit your current job? What are your weaknesses / strengths? / What is your weakness / strength? Why should we select you? / Why do you choose? Why did you choose this specialization? Why did you do this specialization? Why are your marks very low in XYZ exam? Why are your marks in Xyz exam so low? What is your biggest achievement till date? / What is your biggest achievement so far? Besides, some common questions related to your industry can also be asked, so study these questions in advance. That they should be crushed This is because your mental clarity remains. An outline of questions should be prepared in your mind, and at the time of the interview, he should be ready to speak in his own words. Example: If you suddenly ask your strength, then you will surely give a reply. But maybe later you feel you have missed your best, but if you are already prepared, then such a mistake will not happen.


 5) Run a complete interview process in Mind several times: Whenever I have to give an interview, before that I run the entire interview of 4-5 times in my mind. And this is very detailed. In this, I think about the smallest thing till the end of the morning, till the end of the interview. By doing so, mind becomes totally clear about many things. Like when to pick up, whether to revise, what to wear, how to go, how long to reach, what to go, how to keep gesture, how to introduce yourself, etc. It is most important Part is to visualize yourself while interacting with the interviewer. I think in my heart that the interviewer is asking a question, and then I am answering it. By doing so many times such questions come to mind those whose answers are not properly known, and then I prepare them well. Do not know how this technique looks like, but whenever I do it, there is some advantage of something. Now whether it comes to interviewing someone with an interview that is in the mind of a question or some small thing such as pressing clothes for the interview 🙂 ... but there is definitely some benefit.

6) Before the campus selection during Mock & Mirror PracticeMBA Many times mock interviews were given, and together with his friend, Dheeraj, were also for many people's mock interviews, we had also recorded these interviews with web-cam, which saw a lot of benefits from the people. If you do not have much experience in giving interview, you must also give Mock Interviews. To conduct an interview, you can request a friend or a senior who can give you a right feedback. Make this activity very seriously, this can teach you a lot. Because often we do not see those mistakes we make, but those other things can easily point out. Please note that while there is no confidence in you from this activity. Here, the interviewer has to show that he will also tell you about your improvement areas and increase your confidence. If you feel that you can lose confidence with this activity then do not do it. Instead place yourself in front of the mirror and give your interview, and if you like, then record it in your mobile too. When you hear your answers, you will see some improvement areas yourself.


 7) Note on Non-Verbal Communication: The communication that we communicate comes in two ways to the front. Verbally and Non-Verbally.Verbally, that is what we speak, or write, and non-verbally the rest, how we speak, what tone, our way of sitting, eye contact, even ourdressing sense According to different research, only 20% of our total communication is verbal and 80% non-verbal. Therefore it is very important to pay attention to this 80%. While interacting with the interviewer you have to pay attention to a few things: You will see that you are genuinely interested in this job. You can do this well by dressing up, reaching the venue from time to time. Your voice should not be dull, It is very important to show enthusiasm and confidence. A smile is essential when you meet for the first time, and you should also keep a friendly gesture during the interview. Your enthusiasm for a job will be reflected in your preparation, so be sure to give your homework an interview. Specially, you should be well informed about the company, and also know about the current developments related to your field. Note: You can read this article to improve your confidence level.

 8) Do not answer contradictory answers: Interviewers can ask for your honesty, or just ask some of those questions which are related to each other. Example: If you have already said that this is your dream company, but When it is asked what the company offers, and you can not tell properly, then this is the message that on one side it is your dream company and on the other hand you do not even have basic information about it. So, that does not mean you are honest. You have written your hobby Playing Cricket in the CV and if you tell the Playing Chess in the interview, then the interviewer will definitely doubt you. It is only right to speak the truth in the interview, but if you have spoken a lot in excitement or nervousness Hold on to the answer, and do not contradict it during the entire interview.

 9) Interview in the language that is comfortable, if you are expert in talking both English and Hindi, you can skip this point but if you Are not comfortable in english So you can be an important point. If you see today, most job interviews are in English, but in many places where there may be interviews in Hindi, people also try to give an interview in English itself. Look, it is better to speak the correct english than to speak the correct Hindi. Yes, if the job is such that without English work, such as International Call Center, etc, then you try to talk only in English, but if There is no such job where Hindi can work as well, then talk in Hindi only. In the beginning of the interview, you can ask the social worker that I can answer the questions in Hindi? Can I give my reply in Hindi? In most cases you should get the answer in yes only. And then you can give your complete interview with Hindi + English. Actually, in many jobs, you just need to understand English, even if you can not speak it. But the ability to understand or read by reading is also enough to do that work, and the Interviewer also understands this. The biggest advantage of doing this is that you will be able to express yourself well and you will be able to bring any knowledge related to that job to the interviewer easily. And when you do this your chance of success will definitely increase. Note: To learn English, you can read this article.                           


10) Keep thinking that if selection is good then something better will be better: Do not be too over conscious to be selected in the interview. Even if you are not selected, the world will not be here again, in fact After a few months you may not even remember that you had appeared in such an interview. Those with a positive attitude assume that whatever happens is good. I had an interview for the trainer at Max Newyork Life in 2010, but luckily my selection was not there. Fortunately, because as many people as as a trainer were taken at that time, they were removed within 6 months because of the poor condition of market conditions. On the other hand, my selection happened a few days later in HCL Technologies, which is a work culture And monetarily, both were good for me, and thanks to this job, I also got the chance to go to Finland, Europe. 🙂


Friends, I hope that the things shared here will be useful and you will be able to improve your success rate in the interview. I will be waiting for your feedback and related questions related to the interview.

Thinking is made ...........

The Law of Attraction or Theory of Attraction says that you attract something that you think about in your life. One of your strongest ideas is to get rid of some other way. But Law of Attraction gives rise to some of the questions whose answers are not easy. But I believe that the problem is not due to Attraction, but rather how to apply Law of Attraction to objective reality. .

Here are some such problematic questions (these are the generalizations of those questions which I have received by email)

 What happens when people's intention (intention, thinking, thinking, purpose) conflict, as if two people think of the same promotion, while the same place is empty?
Does the small children, or even the intentions of the animals work?
If a child is raped, does that mean that he had made such intentions?
If I want to do my relation good but my / my spouse does not pay attention to it, what will happen?
These questions weaken the likelihood of the law of attraction. Occasionally people who believe in Law of Attraction go a bit further to justify it. For Exapmle, he says that misdeeds with the child happened because he had thought about it in his previous birth. Brother, we can explain anything to such a thing, but in my eyes, it is a matter of redemption.



I have never been satisfied with the answers given to these questions by others, and if it is to believe in Law of Attraction then it is important to know the answers. Some books make an attempt to answer them, but they can not answer satisfactorily. But the correct answer can be found in the concept of subjective reality (person - integrity).

Subjective Reality is a belief system in which

 (1) There is only one consciousness (consciousness)

 (2) You are the same consciousness,

 (3) Every thing, every person who is in reality, is the result of your own thinking.

Perhaps you will not be able to easily see but the subjective reality gives answer to all the tricky questions of Law of Attraction with great clarity. I explain ...

There is only one consciousness in the subjective reality - your consciousness. Therefore, there is only one source of intentions in the entire universe - you Even though you see all the people coming in reality, talking, they all exist within your consciousness. You know that your dreams work the same way, but you do not realize that your waking reality is a kind of dream. That sounds just right because you believe that it is true.

Since any other person you meet is a part of your dream, no one other than you can have any intention. Only you are the intentions. You are the only person to think in the whole Universe.

It is important to define "you" in the subjective reality. "You" is not your body. "You" is not important to you. I am not saying that you are a conscious body who are roaming between the unconscious machines. This is exactly the opposite of the understanding of subjective reality. The correct viewpoint is that you are a lonely consciousness in which all reality is decreasing.



Imagine that you are dreaming. What are you really in that dream? Are you the one you are looking for yourself in a dream? No, not at all, that is the embodiment of your dream. You are a dreamer. The whole dream is in your consciousness. All the characters of the dream are the result of your thinking, including your own incarnation. Actually, if you learn lucid dreaming you can change your avatar in your dream itself. In Lucid dreaming you can do everything you can do that you are sure to do.

Physical reality works like this. This universe is somewhat dense compared to the universe of your dream, so here the change gradually happens. But this reality is also in line with your thoughts, just like your dreams are in line with your thinking. "You" are the dreamer in whose dream this is happening. meant to say; It is an illusion that more people have intentions, they are just the result of your thinking.

Of course, if you very strongly believe that there are others' intentions, then you will make such a dream for yourself. But ultimately it is an illusion, it is an illusion.

So let's see how Subjective Reality answers the difficult questions of Law of Attraction:

What happens when people's intention (intention, thinking, thinking, purpose) conflict, as if two people think of the same promotion, while the same place is empty?

Since you are the only person whose intentions are, this is just an internal conflict - inside of you You are giving birth to the idea that both the people want the same position. But you are also thinking (intending) that the same personCan get this position. .This means that you are intend competition. This whole situation is the creation of you only. You believe in competition, so the same decreases in your life. Perhaps you have some beliefs (thoughts and intentions), who will get promotions, so your expectation will become reality. But maybe you believe that life is unfair is uncertain, so you can get some surprise in this because you are intending the same. Having a single intender in your reality puts a heavy responsibility on your shoulders. Thinking that the world is uncertain is unfair, etc., you can leave control of its reality, but you can not leave your responsibility. You are the only creativity of this Universe. If you think of war, poverty, disease, etc. you will have to see this. If you think of peace, love, happiness, then you will see all this happening in reality. Whenever you think about something, then they actually invoke the thought to appear in reality.Is the motives of small children, or even animals, works? No, even your body has no intention Does not happen - only the intentions of your consciousness are there. You are alone who have intentions, so it is what you think for children or animals. If every thought is an intention, then you will think of them as well, in reality, they will be the same. Keep in mind that the beliefs are hierarchical, so if the reality of your belief is uncertain, uncontrollable is more powerful then it will suppress your other beliefs, in which you are less sure. The collection of all your thoughts decides what you will see in reality. If a child is raped, does that mean that he had made such intentions? This means that you had intend like this. You intend to think about child abuse and to be in reality. The more you think about child abuse (or about anything else), in the same reality you will see its expanse. The one you think about is expanding, and that is not limited to you, but it happens in the whole universe. If I want to do my relation good but my / my spouse does not pay attention to it then what will happen ? This is another example of intending conflict. You are doing an intention of your incarnation and one of your spouse, then the real intention that arises is conflict. So whatever you experience, based on your higher order, it is your conflict with your spouse. If your thoughts are conflicted then your reality will also be conflicted. Therefore, taking responsibility for your thoughts is so important. If you want to see peace in the world then intend peace for everything in your reality. If you want to enjoy loving relationships then intend loving relationships for everyone. If you intend only for yourself and not for others, then it means that you are intending conflict, division, separation, and as a result you will experience this. If you think about something Will he leave if he leaves? Yes, technically he will disappear But practically it is almost impossible to uncreate what you have created. You will focus on these issues and increase them. But when you are feeling truly 100% responsible for whatever you are experiencing in reality then you will have the power in which you can change your reality by changing your thoughts. All this reality is made of you. Feel good about it Be grateful for the world's richness. And then start building the reality with your decisions and intentions that you really want. Think about it that you want, and remove your focus from those who do not want you. The easiest and natural way to do this is to pay attention to your emotions. Thinking about your desires makes you happy and think about what you do not want to feel bad about. When you notice that you are feeling bad, then understand that you are thinking about something you do not want. Take your focus back to what you want, your emotional state will improve rapidly. When you begin to do this again and again, you will also see a change in your physical reality, first slowly and later in a big way. I am also the result of your consciousness. I do just as you expect me to. If you expect me to be a helpful guide, then I will be like that. If you expect me to be intimate and practical, then I will become like that. If you expect me to be confused and deceived, then I will become like that. But I am not such a "I" who is different from you. I'm just one of your creations. I am what you intend for me. And somewhere you already know this, why is it not?

I can tell how your life will be!

No, I am not an astrologer, but still I can tell you how your life will be!



For this, all you have to do is tell me how on an average you spend your day.


Friends, this life is created only by one day, and the way we spend our days, our weeks, months and years pass, and in our life, our life passes.

So if you carefully look at this and understand how your one day is going then you can understand how your life is going to be.

You just waste time around the day without planning anything, and in the end, you will find life waste.
If you step by step thinking about achieving any goal every day, then in the end you will be living life worth living.
You are between them (like most of us) then you are going to be the life of an average human being.
Motivational guru Robin Sharma has said -

What you are doing today is actually making your future. The words you are speaking, those thoughts are thinking, those who are eating food and those who are taking action are defining your destiny - deciding what you are becoming and how you will be living.

By making a real self-assessment we can see our life trajectory. You can see, if we continue to walk then where will we finally reach



It is important to look at this because you may not realize what will be the result of it being lost one day or so, but when you see the result of your current living pattern today, then you are inspired to make changes in your life. Can.

And a small change brought today can change your whole life trajectory.

Remember today those who are at the peak of success, they are not very different from us ... in the presence, not in intelligence, in the situation ... but even today they are there where they wanted to be ... and they are just like one big Not able to carry by step ... Rather they have reached their destination with small steps taken every day.

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Are you ready to take small steps today that will change your tomorrow? Are you ready to live up to your day in a new way so that your life, created by adding these days, will also become new?

Remember, every day is the first day of your life ... Make that day great .... Life will become great by itself.

All the best!

7 Habits That Can Make You Super Successful

Your life just does not decrease simply. Whether you know it or not, it is designed by you. After all, you choose your own options. You choose happiness. You choose sorrow. You choose the certainty. You choose your uncertainty. You choose your own success. You choose your failure. You choose courage. You choose the fear. Remember that every single moment, every single situation gives you a new alternative. And in such a way, you always have the opportunity to do things differently and produce positive results for yourself.

Habit 1: Be Be proactive / proactive
Being proactive means being responsible for your life. You can not blame your parents or grandparents for everything. Proactive people understand that they are "response-able". They do not blame genetics, circumstance, or perception for their conduct. They know that they choose their own behavior. On the other hand, those who are reactive on the other hand are mostly affected by their physical environment. They blame external things for their behavior. If the weather is good, then they like it. And if not, it affects their attitude and performance, and they blame the weather. All external forces work like a stimulus, on which we react. Your biggest strength lies in the same excitement and the reaction you make on it - and that is the fact that freedom is that you can choose your own reaction on your own. One very important thing is that you can choose what you say. The language you use indicates how you see yourself. A proactive person uses proactive language - I can, I will, etc. A reactive person uses reactive language - I can not, if it happens, etc. Reactive people think that they are not responsible for what they say and do - they have no choice. They have no choice. They have no choice.





Instead of reacting or worrying on situations which can not be controlled at all or at least a little bit, proactive people put their time and energy in things that they can control. Whatever problems, challenges or opportunities we have before us, we can divide them into two areas:



Circle of Concern (area of ​​concern)
Circle of Influence (Area of ​​Influence )
Proactive people focus their efforts on the Circle of Influence. They work on things they can do about something like: health, children, workplace problems. Reactive people focus their efforts on the Circle of Concern: debt, terrorism, weather on the country. Knowing that what we spend in our energy, is a big step towards becoming proactive.

Habit 2: Begin with the End in Mind Start by keeping the end in mind
So what do you want to become a grown up? Perhaps this question may sound strange, but you think about it for a moment. Are you still the ones you wanted to be made, whose dream you saw, are you doing what you always wanted to do? Think honestly. Many times it happens that people see themselves winning such a win which is actually hollow- such a success, in exchange for which big things have to be sung. If your ladder is not on the right wall then whatever steps you take takes you to the wrong place.


Habit 2 is based on your imagination or imagination - that is your ability to show you things in your mind that you can not see with your eyes. It is based on the principle that everything is created twice. First mental creation, and second physical creation Just as a house is built after the blue-print is created, so is the creation of a physical creation only after having a mental creation. If you do not visualize yourself what you doIf you want to become and what you want to be, then you leave the decision on how your life will be and on other situations. Habit 2 is about how you recognize your character, and then can keep yourself happy and complete within your personal, moral and ethical guidelines. To begin with, keeping in mind the end, it means starting every day, work or project with a clear vision of what our direction and what destination should be, and then proactively take up the task to complete that work. The priceless idea on Imagination is the best way to get Habit 2 into practice, to make a Personal Mission Statement of your own. Its focus will be on what you want to be and what you want to do. This is your planning for success. It confirms who you are, puts your goals in focus, and brings your ideas to this world. Your Mission Statement makes you the leader of your life. You make your destiny yourself, and those dreams you have seen come true. Habit 3: Put First Things First Prioritize Primary Things To live a balanced life, you have to understand that you have everything in this life can not do. There is no need to engage in more work than yourself. Do not hesitate to say "no" when necessary, and then focus on your important priorities. Habit 1 says, "You are in charge. You are the creator ". Being proactive is your own choice. Habit 2 is about to visualize things in the first brain. Starting with the end in mind, it is related to vision. Habit 3 is about the second creation, i.e. physical creation. Habit 1 and Habit 2 have sex in this habit. And it happens every moment all the time. It deals with many questions related to Time Management. But this is not all that. Habit is also about 3 life management-your purpose, values, roles, and priorities. What are "Primary Things"? The primary things are those, which you personally consider the most valuable. If you prefer to prioritize primary tasks, you are putting your time, your energy, on the priorities set by you in Habit 2. Habit 4: Think Win-Win Always Think of Winning Think Win-Win Is not about, nor is it a short-cut. This is a code based on character that interacts and collaborates with other people. Most of us do our assessment based on comparison and competition from others. We see our success in the failure of others-that is, if I win, you lose, if you win then I lose. In this way life becomes a zero-sum game. As if there is only one bread, and if the second takes a bigger share, then I will get less, and I will try that others do not get much. We all play these games, but you think how much fun it is? Win-Win sees life as a co-operation, not like competition. Win-Win is a state of mind and heart that continually motivates everyone to think about the benefit of everyone. Win-Win means such agreements and solutions that are beneficial and satisfactory to everyone. All things are eaten in it, and they taste great. A person or organization who tries to solve problems with the Win-Win attitude, there are three main things in it: Integrity / Loyalty: Your values, Do not compromise with commitments and feelings Maturity / Maturity: Put your ideas and feelings in front of others and cherish the thoughts and feelings of others. Abundance Mentality / Mindset of Abundance: Be sure to believe in this. Not so much for the lot of people think in terms of either-or: either you're good or you desperately. Both Win-Win is required. It's like balance between courage and understanding. To win Win-Win, you will not only be sympathetic but also self-confident. You will not only be thoughtful and sensitive but also brave. To do this, balance is established in the concept and consideration, that is the real maturity, and is very important for Win-Win. Habit 5: Seek First to Understand, then understand the others, then explain your point of Communication Life The most important is the skill. You spend many years studying to read-write and speak. But what is the hearing? What training have you received, which teaches you to listen to others, so that you can understand the person in the right way? Maybe no one? Why? If you are like most people, maybe you too would like to explain your point of view first. And in doing so, you will completely ignore the other person, show that you are listening, but actually you just listen to words but they are completely missed by their true meaning. Good speaker? 17 Tips Why Think It Is? Because most people hear with the intention that they have to answer, do not understand. You listen to yourself inside and prepare to do what you have to say next, ask questions, etc. Whatever you listen to, it touches you through your life-experiences. You compare what you hear with your autobiography whether it is right or wrong. And because of this you have to talk about the otherThey make an impression in their mind that what the next is saying is what they want to say. Do these sentences seem to be heard by some hearing? "Hey, I know how you are feeling. It was the same with me. "" It was the same with me too. "" I tell you what I did at that time. "Since you listen to others according to the experiences of your life. You answer in one of these four ways: Evaluating / evaluation: First you judge, agree or disagree after that. Probing / inquiry: You answer your questions according to your advice. Interpreting / explaining: You analyze the motives and behaviors of others according to your experience. Perhaps you are thinking that what is evil in relating to someone with your experience? It may be appropriate to do this in some situations, such as when someone tells you to tell you something based on your experiences, when you have a trust relationship between the two. But it is not always appropriate to do this. Habit 6: Synergize / Tail-matching: Understanding in simple words, "Two brains are better than one" Synergize means constructive support. This is team-work. It is open minded to find out the new diagnosis of old problems. But this yahoo just does not happen automatically. This is a process, and through the same process, people can use their experience and expertise. Together they alone can get a better result than they are. From Synergy, we find so many things together that rarely find when we search for them alone. This is the idea in which the whole is greater than the sum of the parts. One plus one equals three, or six, or sixty- or more When people start interacting with each other honestly, and are open to being influenced by each other, then they start getting new information. Differences among themselves increase the ability to invent new methods multiplied. Importance of conflicts is the core of synergy. Do you really value those who are psychologically, emotional, and psychological differences? Or do you want all the people to listen to you so that you can move forward easily? Many people understand unity as unity. Should see mutual differences as weakness, not as strength. Habit 7: Sharpen the Saw / Sharpen the ax A Sharpen the Saw means to keep your own property safe. It means designing a program for yourself that will renew your four areas of life in physical, social / emotional, mental, and spiritual. Below are examples of some such activities: physical / physical: good food, exercise, relax, social / emotional / social / emotional: social and meaningful relationship with others. Mental / mental: reading-writing, learning-learning. Spiritual / Spiritual: Spend time with nature, meditate, serve. As you - like you will improve yourself in every area, you will bring progress and change in your life. Sharpen the Saw keeps you fresh so that you can practice the remaining six habits well. Doing this increases your ability to face challenges. Without doing so your body becomes weak, the brain becomes insensitive, the emotions get cold, the nature becomes insensitive, and the person becomes selfish. And this is not a good picture, why? You feel good, it does not happen by itself. The purpose of living a balanced life is to remove the necessary time to renew yourself. It's all up to you. You can relax yourself and renew it. Or burn every one by doing excessive work. You can love yourself mentally and spiritually, or you can be unaware of your well-being. You can experience the vibrant energy inside you or by avoiding the loss of good health and exercise benefits. You can revive yourself and welcome a new day with peace and harmony. Or you can get up with sadness and see the day pass by. Just remember that every day gives you a new opportunity to renew yourself, gives opportunity, to recharge itself. Just need Desire (desire), Knowledge (knowledge) and Skills (skills).

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